Naturally I'm a pretty aloof guy and I don't try to be and it has a big disadvantage. Girls can never tell that I'm interested, so it's obvious I'm terrible at showing it. For example girls get really and genuinely surprised (in a good way) when they find out I have a thing for them or when I'm making a move, they'll always tell me "I had no idea", or "I wouldn't think you would go for someone like me". Since they feel this way, a lot of the times they have to start warming up to the idea of taking it somewhere. Pretty much I have to go an extra mile to make it known, so it can finally go somewhere in my pick ups. The thing is I want to do a smooth pick up where she can feel my vibes better, and one thing leads to another. Instead of me having to eventually be straightforward to get us on the same page.

Have you tried using some NPL?

Have you tried being sexual from the get-go with girls you're sexually interested in?

What is your idea of flirting?

Sorry I haven't replied, caught up in other things.

Sexual from the get go hmm... I feel sexual when talking to girls I'm attracted to if that's what you mean.

Flirting... I couldn't define it, it kind of just happens when she wants to show interest and I reciprocate. Just I come back mostly cold when they try to read me.

Part of being a pua is showing the target you are capable of safe human emotions like being excited at times, or upset, etc.

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