Hi I just posted on here about my significant other willing to try something new for our marriage ... she basically agreed to having us explore openness and see if we'll like it or not .. but its mainly for the experience of it since we've been with each other for 14 yrs (feelz like forever) but yeah .. we agreed to trying something new for 2k14 as long as we follow certain rules and handle it maturely without any drama ..

so anyway the particular targets I plan on going after are women with a really big butts simply because that's the best sex to me .. However I have an issue, Whenever I cross paths with a big butt dream I get intimidated, then anxiety kicks in, then the fear kicks in harder, next thing you know ... I chicken out then they walk by ..

How can I get past this kind of shyness, fear, anxiety? and then talk to someone without giving off the hint that I'm only after them for there body? like what would I say as an opener or approach? Its been a long time since I've tried to talk to anybody .. and talking to somebody on this level kind of excites me ...

... because i'm trying to target a babe that differs from wifey and since she doesn't pack too much downstairs I figured I might as well have some fun with this experiment and go after the ultimate doggy style ride ... I mean I've experienced it before but that was way way back then .. a long long ass time ago .. the only reason I was able to ride that wave the first time is because the babe approached me and wouldn't take no for an answer .. so can somebody please help me out?? advice?? comments?? statements?? help!!!

lmao well seeing im a black guy from down south im used to getting girls with big asses..SO I PROMISE YOU THE KEY IS to think that it's sloppy lol most of the time when u see an unbelievably big ass (whether she's black white or latina) its probably sloppy, and the only thing that makes it look good are the jeans...thats the mindset i have when i go after 'thick' girls.....most girls with nice bodies only get approached because of their body so its best to just be a funny guy and focus on other things before her body, then she will like you and it might work out....but you could go the direct approach and let her know you want her for her body and she might be a freak and let you do something.........basically just start the conversation and let it flow naturally, girls with nice bodies are easier to talk to than girl with gorgeous faces

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Thanks for the advice .. Oh my god if i can pull somethin other than black ... that would be like winning the lottery because i never had interracial experiences. btw ima mixed black man and ive alwayz wanted to live out an interracial big butt encounter .. lol ..

well latina girls usually have them and check out the gym, alot of girls do alot of squats now

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Someone mentioned "big ass"?

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