hey so Ive been talking to this girl at the gym that my friend introduced to me

for weeks she harrassed me in person and through text about taking her out on a date, I asked her one night to go out with me and this is how the text convo went

me: hey lets hangout tonight me and you!
her:ok where??
her:meaning you tell me where and what time to meet you
her: Hey I'm sorry, but I made other plans and plus I have work later tonight you took too long to respond
Me:alright
Me:lets hangout a night preferably when you dont have work
Her: I dont know about all that now, you took 2 hours to respond and I'm not about that
Me: I was driving sheesh
Her: Listen I dont think you understand you do this all the time
Me: Yeah well I was getting things done so we could hangout tonight and I pushed all my other plans aside, but its ok forget it
Her: well if you wanna see me so bad come over
Me: nah thats alright its sort of a buzz kill now lol
Her: Ok well I guess I'll be seeing you in the gym then
I didnt respond

the next day she does this
Her: Hey I'm so sorry about last night would you please just accept my apology
Me: yea lets just forget about it and hangout monday
Her: Can't Wait!

we hangout monday everything goes great! I follow up 4 days later and I get this

Me: come do cardio Punk
Her:I'm going at 6
Me:oh I have work
Her:Have a nice night at work
Me: Rather be with you
Her:well arent you sweet
Her: you know when I workout so thats the only time you may see me really
Me: hey dont say that I had a good time with you monday night
Her:Same except for the end with the john thing pull something sweet out of your hat then Im old fashioned I like romantic sweet dates
Me: it was a joke sheesh, too thin skinned
Her: you need better jokes...
Me:lol oh please
Her:I'm going to take a nap see you around

I didnt text her back but on our date she asked me to come over and watch a movie after and i said nah i gotta get running and she kept saying oh come on please, then I made a joke saying nah john told me what kinda girl you are as a complete joke

the next day i get this
Her:hoping to hit the gym around 1230 to 1 if youd like to join
Her:hey so i do like you Im sorry if i sound like an ass when i talk to you, im just at the stage where im trying to protect myself i did have a nice time with you I mean you looked great I'm sorry again
Me: Im not gonna keep going back and forth with you every so often like youve been doing its annoying and I dont have time for it
Me: get ahold of me when you grow up, I'll be around
Her: alright

its been 2 days havent heard from her any advice?

BTW: my friend from the gym told me she was really into me and he thinks she starts this drama cuz i blow her off alot and shes trying to game me almost he said any advice?

Dude...this is gay. This girl has given you multiple opportunities to come over and fuck. Wtf

I dont think shes like that, I feel like if I went in for it she would give me last minute resistance, my question is why is she cool and then i follow up she starts drama

most of all where should i go from here its been 2 days?

Not seeing any drama here from her side.

First situation, she wanted to hang out you took 2 hours to respond. If you're setting up plans with someone you gotta respond in a timely manner, especially a girl you like and haven't fucked. Then she asked you to come over and you rejected her. Next day she apologized to you, even though she shouldnt have. When you finally hung out with her, she asks you to come over again and you say a dumb joke about no, because you heard something about her. Note, never make this type of joke again with a girl you're trying to sleep with. It's like you're trying to make her feel like a slut for asking you to come over.

This girl is making it very easy for you, trying to meet you, inviting you over, complimenting you and you are causing drama. She sounds easy and AFC from her texts. She's double texting you to hang out. Repeat: SHE IS DOUBLE TEXTING YOU TO HANG OUT. She's down for you. You just keep blowing her off and rejecting her and in the midst of her trying to hang out at 12:30, you tell her she's playing games???? Dude...this is 10000% you here. You're causing the drama and complicating things. My honest guess is that you have some form of sexual anxiety or aren't used to girls. And that's from your interactions with her.

damn what did I just read, are you bipolar? She apologized at the end and you basically turned around and told her to fuck off. No offense, you acted very childish throughout the interaction, she is not the one who needs to grow up.

She was right in the beginning that you took to long when you are the one who initiated the conversation to go out. She even invited you to fuck to make up for it, but let's let that slide since we'll say your mood was killed. Reading the rest of the post I think she has been mature enough and forgiving after all the drama you caused. She even offered to fuck you once more and made it too easy for you which you didn't earn the privilege, and still you rejected her and ended the conversation in a very childish manner.

I'm wondering why you made this thread anyways. This is a PUA forum meant to help guys attract and seduce girls. Since this girl has already offered you lot's of opportunities for sex, which you rejected, what kind of help are you looking for?

ok my question is then what exactly should i do to re initiate things when i see her at the gym again, should i text her? I am not sure where to move from here thanks alot!

my friend john said she was a really good girl doesnt really go out or anything like that, she is real focused on school and sports

I never heard anything bad about her I dont know why I made that joke but i feel like she went too crazy with it

I just really wanna know how to put this back into perspective, she harrased me for weeks to take her out on a date i finally do and she acts that way

by the way that was the only time i hung out with her was that date, the only times i saw her prior was in the gym and we would do cardio together and talk, then my friend told me she was into me and for weeks she harrassed me to take her out and then i finally did

Stop listening to your friend. If she is older than 12, inviting you to her place is a clear sign she wants to fool around. And she didn't go crazy over the joke, she told you to be sweet while giving you a chance to fuck. She didn't bash you for it and she is giving you a ton of chances to get her. Just go to a movie at her place for christ sakes. Nothing you do now can be worse than what you've already done so don't worry, she prob still wants you.

Doesn't look like you're talking about a girlfriend you're in a relationship with.

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