| Hi, i'm new here and i have a question.
I hope i can explain this so you understand.
I went on date 1, with a girl that i met on Tinder. I'm a Swede living in Stockholm. She's a dutch that is over her studying.
Anyway, i chose a place close to my apartment, in case i was lucky. The place had a cocktail level with dimmed lights and hawaiian inspired music. It was a good place. The date began and we talked, smiled a lot and had a good time. In about 3 hours into the date i kissed her and we started making out. It went a bit wild, she started biting my tongue... it actually went so far that a guard in the joint asked us to take it easy "People are watching". A little bit ridiculous, but i kept my cool. Didn't want to make a scene with this new girl around.
So, i asked the girl if she wanted to get out of there. Go home to my place. She answered:
I told myself that i wouldn't follow you home.
So, i just said that, that's fine. When can i see you again?
She answered: New years eve.
I said ok. Followed her to the sub, and there we made out again. Jungle style this time. I started touching her tits, ass etc....... Why i mentions this, is because i'm pondering over this. I'm thinking that i might have been a bit to horny, a bit too sticky, a bit too much. I don't know if i scared her.
So now i'm thinking. Should i call her today, and ask her if she wants to come by tonight. That i can cook some food etc...
If i do this, it is me controlling the situation. But it can also come off as a quite obvious "Do you wanna shag" attempt.
If i just wait and call her on new years eve. She might think that she's controlling the situation and thus not feel as strong for me.
Now, the girl is smart and cute. Not a 10, more of a 7.
Anyone who has been in my shoes? Or just have any ideas on how to proceed.
I'm just looking for a second opinion my friends.
P.S Moderator, If i posted this in the wrong thread. Please feel free to move it to the right one.
/Anden
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