I can't seem to get started out with improving my game. I've read books but I can't manage to go out in the field and play.

Tomorrow I have a day off and it's sale-sunday in my city, so I was planning to go to the city centre and do something, but I can't figure out what. I'm not sure what should be the first steps in game improvement. I need some feedback in my plan for tomorrow.

Step #1 - Call one of my friends and ask him a couple of random questions about how he's doing, to get myself warmed up.

Step #2 - Walk through the streets, say Hi to random people (not just girls, everyone who makes eye contact with me (I will be scanning for eye contact)

I have been able to do this in the past. I've never managed to go anywhere from here, and I'm not sure what the next step should be. I have a couple of idea's, but what's best?

- Stop a walking person on the street and try to start a conversation with them
- Find a set sitting somewhere on a terrace or McDonals or anything and open them
- Anything else?

And when should I be satisfied with what I did tomorrow? When I opened a set? When I get a number close? Should I be satisfied even if everything goes wrong?

Any tips would be appreciated.

First, stop thinking so hard about things. When you go out start slowly, just a few words to someone here and there, and you will feel this " flowing" come to you, its something like getting warmed up if you are a musician or an athlete. Once you have that, that feeling, you need to keep the momentum up and start approaching girls you are interested in.

Here is where i'm going to be brutally honest. You are probably going to get rejected by every girl you approach that day. But its ok, because you are building self confidence..those bitches can smell a lack of self confidence on a man a mile a way! You just have to keep trying, dont give up, don t over think this shit to much and just keep getting rejected, till you find that one girl, and then you will find another , and another, until your game is as tight as an 9 year old's asshole!

Go to a clothing shop.

Go straight up to a woman that works there.

Say "Hey, i'm looking for a nice top for myself."

Keep it simple and work from there. Gain confidence and learn how you interact on the base level before you jump into the deep end and start chatting up random strangers. Then progress from there and open sets on the streets. Remember, there's such thing as warm up sets -- it's a really good tactic that gets you in the mood for random banter. Just go up to anyone and ask any stupid shit or if you're in a club go up to random girls who you're not even interested in and start talking about anything.

I know I'll probably be rejected by every girl I approach, but I think I'm fine with that. I know that I'm a little bit above avrage looking (I'd say 7/10) so thats not the problem.

A clothing shop is a good idea, because I honestly need a new pants anyway. I'll start there and then start with strangers.

I'll let you know how it went.

I'm sorry, I didn't go. Something came in between. I'll take this post to the next time I get this opportunity! Thanks.

You're putting too much pressure on yourself

Just find an indirect canned opener (millions online) and use it on people. A clothes worked is a good place to start and they are usually hot.

Your goal is to drag the conversation out as long as possible, THEN.....just tell her Thankyou and leave

Just keep doing that until that until that intense feeling Inside you disappears fun you can add some game to your chat.

You will get rejected but you have to break a few eggs to make an omelette

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