Hey guys here's my question I met this girl got her number and from the time I met her until the time we went out she did a personality 180. She was a cool bubbly girl when I met her when I was talking to her on the phone. We met up for a coffee she did a total personality 180 and was not the cool girl I met before. my body language end eye contact was spot on I had her laughing so i was doing good. Then part way through she looked at her phone grabbed her purse put her coat on and walked off. I'm like whatever the date on my part was a chore so I don't care if I talk to her again or not, but after that I needed to get some christmas presents so I went on a mall sarge and did pretty well, but after that shitty date as I was walking through the mall I started to oneitis myself about the last girl I went out with.

I'm sure others out there have had this before I'm not seriously distraught with oneitis, but it does throw my game off a bit I don't know why I started oneitising myself, but any advice on getting past that would be appreciated. Thanks!!

Hey man the reason you oneitised yourself is because you had a date which you put effort into, it didn't go well because she was a bitch, and now your mind goes back to the "good old days" where you used to have a girl. If only she was still here with you, you wouldn't have to go through this stupid bullshit of going through girls, going through bad experiences (as well as good ones), if only you could just be COMFORTABLE and go back to that again. You wouldn't have to push yourself so hard, you wouldn't have to go out as much, you could sit on the couch and watch a movie with her without worrying about GAME or when your next lay is going to be. Oh if only!

See what your mind is doing? Snap out of it. Go out, do what you don't want to do.

True mate that's exactly what I felt like! I guess the only solution is to snap out of it and sarge on. Thanks for the advice. Even though the date was shit I still made the most of the situation and sarged the mall while I was out.