I've been at school and find this interesting girl(6-7) who I wanted to have a relationship with. I've been texting with her for less than a month but I find out she has a crush( which is obviously not me) How can I destroy her crush and make her in to me? ( I won't use physical violence lol)

You don't really have to destroy him, just work on yourself and show her that you are definitely better than him. Take her out on dates, fun ones (not really fancy restaurants).

PS: Escalate

are there any methods to make her notice/ be attracted to me? cuz it's kinda hard if they are blinded by others

You have to risk it to know the answer.

If you can't ask her out on a date and escalate until you get physical with her, you won't ever know what could've happened if you did.

You've been texting for a month, and that's too much to be honest. Only use text when necessary, you don't have to go 24/7 with her shit.

Hitman... Simple..

Why are you focused on an obstacle that isn't really there? The guy crush is her deal, not yours. Unless she is telling you about him (which is a bad sign). I would game as normal and act like the guy doesn't exist. If she still gives you shit about this other guy (verbally) I would cut the amount of time I contact her and come back to her every once in awhile while I let nature run its course and she gets over it.

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[quote="Mr. Assertive"]Why are you focused on an obstacle that isn't really there? The guy crush is her deal, not yours. Unless she is telling you about him (which is a bad sign). I would game as normal and act like the guy doesn't exist. If she still gives you shit about this other guy (verbally) I would cut the amount of time I contact her and come back to her every once in awhile while I let nature run its course and she gets over it

Thx man, I'm new to the game and i'm pretty clueless. She didnt talk about the other guy much lol. I'm gonna try my best, thx for the advice

Slightly different case:

She does not have a crush on a specific guy, she has "a type", and pretty much shuts down anyone else.

Same procedure?

You're the leader. You tell us.

Does her type matter to you? Will you let her reality ("frame") define yours?

Sure, you might be shot down, but if you just passively accept her frame that you are not her "type", then you've already lost.

Doesn't matter. As long as your a likeable person, she will follow.

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