there is a married woman whom i met before she got married..she is around my age..girls marrying at a young age here is common..she says her husband is boring and he is way older than her...she says she was into me before she even married him...this presents me with a moral dilemma..she is hot but is married...what would you do if you were in my situation?

Man, this isn't about what we would do, as we are not in your shoes... You should check your moral compass for what it tells you (e.g. is it "right" or "wrong" to fuck some guy's wife) and do a risk assessment for what could go wrong (e.g. guy running you over with his car for fucking his wife)...

hahahaha...i feel i should fuck...she is so hot an 8.5.

There's your answer... go ahead while taking precautions that the guy doesn't find out about the two of you... no written communication (text, e-mail, Facebook messages, etc), no meeting in public places (coffee shops, bars, clubs, restaurants, taking walks in the city), no going at her place (high risk of being seen by nosy neighbours or being caught or leaving shit behind that can be traced to you), no talking about it (no friends or family need to know about your indiscretion)...

I went through some bad shit with a chick right out of a relationship and still the ex was a troublemaker... take care...

No one knows..it is secretive..
i will take her to my place.

If you see a future with her, definitely go for it. It doesn't matter if she's married or not. If it makes both of you happy, you're doing yourself---and her---a favor.

If it's just a fuck, I'd be wary. People always have a way of finding out the truth, and even if you do your best to keep it hidden, she may inadvertently let something slip... or act weird around him. Women are not the best at keeping secrets. This is not meant to discourage you to go for it, nor is it some patronizing moral-high-ground-don't-do-it type of thing. Just be smart about it and protect yourself man. He could be batshit crazy.

Also, have you seen pics of the guy? If he is some loser/weakling, (or he's older, so you could take him on if it came down to that), you really have nothing to worry about, LOL.