I don't know how to make myself genuinely like a girl. I don't know how to let a girl sweep me off my feet. Can you? How do you do that?

If you're talking about love. You cant. It just happens. You cant say to yourself, i want to like this girl now

Depends on the person.

Some people aren't selective and will go for anything that meets basic criteria for an approach. It could be a woman who is skinny. That's his standards. Then there are people who just kind of click when they see someone and then there's people who have very high standards that need to be met.

Find out which one you are and don't worry about it so much. Obviously you don't have low standards if you're having problems being attracted to women(Unless you're gay?).

Either you're a "clicker" or you have high standards.

If you have high standards there's not much you can do but try lower them if you want more women you see that attract you or go somewhere where those standards are met and plentiful.

If you're the kind of guy that just sees someone and clicks with them then you're SOL. You've just got to keep playing the game and get over any AA you may have so that when you do "click" you know exactly how to approach and talk to this woman.

"Let a woman sweep me off my feet?" Dude, YOU are supposed to be the one sweeping off HER feet! You got it backwards, you sound just like a female. I highly suggest getting under the iron and increase testosterone quickly!