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PostPosted: Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:37 pm 
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This is a new type of problem, I do daygame, I do hired guns, sales hostesses and I ran out of money.

Now pick up is easy, but these babes do not want to pay in restaurants and shops and museums so I can't get next HB because I can't afford it (in addition to the existing 2) and it puts down some of my confidence which affects my game?
I only have a minimum wage job, how can I have more money?

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:42 pm 
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STOP SPENDING MONEY!! seems obvious that if its not working try something different...like game!

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:51 pm 
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One thing I like doing is getting creative with the dates. Maybe go to a cheap restaurant or go for a nice walk in a nice park or something. Just get creative if you don't have the money.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 2:59 pm 
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It's time for you to up your game. In most cases you don't have to pay anything. And if you want to go on a date, do something cheap. Go get a drink and pay the first round and let her pay the second.

Edit: I know it sounds weird to let her pay too, but trust me. Just do it. Act like it's normal to split the bill. When you get more experienced, it WILL be normal.

And if you ever meet a girl who wants you to pay everything. Do you really want to be with that person? I sure won't. See it as an efficient screening process. And also a process to spot gold diggers.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 7:07 pm 
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Yes, but at work I am surrounded with AFC, Beta supervisors and managgers who are either suffer under bitch wives, or lust hopelessly after entry level personal assistants. I want to indoctrinate my seniors in the seduction arts in return of promoting me to a higher job with shorter working hours...

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 28, 2013 2:38 am 
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I usually barely spend money. Take aways, Cheap restaurant. My dates usually are going to the beach. Even the flowers i gave to the ladies are the one i picked up from my neighbor garden ;)


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 4:24 am 
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Where there's a will there's a way.

I'm having financial difficulty because I kept helping people for free as well as keeping my prices as low as possible since I really want to help others like I helped myself with all this pickup stuff. For example my new program I just released is worth several times what I'm charging and, while it's really helping anyone who signs up, it's really eating away at my livelihood at the moment.

But still, as long as I don't spend what I don't have I've always survived.

You don't have to anchor your confidence on your current financial status. As long as you're actively growing and doing things to better your life, you can anchor your confidence on how hard you're working to achieve your goals.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 30, 2013 10:25 am 
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Thanks Moderator, and Happy New Year to you all.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 10:39 am 
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You have to put more focus into your life. It's not all about taking girls to fancy places and amazing them all the way to get them into bed. Try cheaper places. Coffee places, walks, bowling, etc...These places provide the SPAM to talk AND entertain at the same time.

Don't go for fancy restaurants unless you're exclusive with the girl, and do it after the sex, not before. That's just how I do things and it really works out for me.

PS: Try looking for a better job, always look at the big picture.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:14 pm 
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After reading replies on your thread I agree that you do not have to spend that much money. In fact doing so may set you up for the woman to put you into a role. For example: if you set a precedent of spending money then that is who you will become for her. Same applies to other behaviors. Nice guys who set the precedent by not escalating get put into the friend zone. A rich guy may spend lavish amounts of money such as clothing for her, high class restaurants, a ride in nice car and etc and for the life of him he just figure out why she does not sleep with him, but figures he just keep trying to impress her with his cash.

I personally always start off cheap such as coffee/pastry at Starbucks. Focus on the time you spend with her regardless of where you are with her. If you want to spend a lot of money on her, then make sure she has earned that from you and don't just give it away.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 7:50 pm 
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Yes, but in my country Starbucks is quite upmarket. My zone is zone 18, everything is cheap here, but there are no dating sites, even the 1980' smaller cinema theaters all shut down, and my home is 46km away for HBs who live in zone 3. I allways say for date 1: Let's go to see the Museum of Communism in zone 6! Before pickup, I fought toot and nail to stay away from zone 6 because that was so pricy! But what can I do, there are at least 10 main tourist sites, and Z 6 is strategically located, accessible place where all the shit is going on!

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 7:55 pm 
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And my Tesco shop sales hostesses are working class women who have other primary occupations such as nurse, student, etc but they earn so little in their first jobs that they must double in as promotion girls, like I said, they are HB7s, not 10s!

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 02, 2014 1:39 am 
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Yes, but at work I am surrounded with AFC, Beta supervisors and managgers who are either suffer under bitch wives, or lust hopelessly after entry level personal assistants. I want to indoctrinate my seniors in the seduction arts in return of promoting me to a higher job with shorter working hours...
So, essentially, you want to earn more money by working fewer hours and tricking your managers into getting you a promotion?

Behave.

If you're ridiculously lucky, you might get born into a rich family and become a CEO because you inherit your dad's position or something. You might win the lottery. Pretty much any other way of getting lots of money is going to be linked to how hard you work.

Note I say hard, not necessarily long, although most ways will involve long hours. Even famous movie stars will have had times in their lives before they were discovered where they would have been working shifts in a supermarket to pay the rent because they couldn't get acting jobs. Rich businessmen built up their businesses through working ridiculously hard to get there. Top lawyers and doctors and other professions work their butts off to get paid what they do.

Even someone who gets a promotion from floor sweeper to shelf stacker needs to earn the right to get that promotion.


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Best way to avoid all of this crap is to do your own thing. Not everyone can do it, but it's worth it.

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Yes, but at work I am surrounded with AFC, Beta supervisors and managgers who are either suffer under bitch wives, or lust hopelessly after entry level personal assistants. I want to indoctrinate my seniors in the seduction arts in return of promoting me to a higher job with shorter working hours...


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