so in highschool i was friends with the popular kids but the last year i had a fight with them and i when out very little with them after.
in college i made new friends but they are all originally from other towns so on holidays i have only a few friends from high school to hang out with and they are quite nerdy to be honest, so its hard to get some of them to go to clubs and even harder to get them to talk to girls or wing.

im fucked, how do i go about building a strong social circle of friends, and how do i become the leader of that group?
i have friends, but they are all very different and don't really get along with one another, so i have one or two friends in many different social circles.
how can i solve this??

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