Does anyone have any suggestions on approaching and opening at [b]singles[/b] [b]events[/b].

Recently been to one and was completely hopeless as everyone, even the chumps, are chatting to girls and destroying sets. Plus, did a warmup set, turned around and everyone was talking in single sets. Without AMOGing how would I open up further sets.

1 Find an 8.5HB or above on the event. Go up to her like Alain Delon, and tell her you like her.

2 Invite her to a scary museum, like the House of Communism or the like, saying you invited several woman friends but none of them were woman enough to take it, exchange phone numbers and leave.

3 Make date but do not go to the scary museum instaed go to Burger King and get her tell you how she got drunk on her first Metalica concert, exchange music ideas, share war stories...

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You don't have a warmup set. At a singles event everyone is there to mingle and talk. So talk to everyone there don't be totally goal oriented and focused on one thing. Talk to the bartender, walk up and talk to a couple talking to each other (the girl may actually be thanking you afterwards)

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thanks msa.
Totally agree with your feedback.

Read quite a bit now about 'State Shifting' and really didnt need to warm-up.
I should do this before hitting the venue by some other means, like shopping, chatting to the bartender etc.

Youve got a point but what about sliping into already formed sets without AMOG-ing?

Hi Urbanite,

funny that you mentioned singles event. A month ago i went to such kind of event for the first time. And let me tell you this: if you know the PUA-stuff, you are already way ahead of the rest.

The most common mistake guys make during such events, is that they take it too serious. They don't flirt/neg/game, they are exchanging information (i.e. age, profession, hometown, and all the other boring shit). The girls are bored of this and you will not distinguish yourself from the rest.

When i went to the event, I was playful/teasing and a bit negging (not too much, the setting is a bit different than clubs). Everybody at the events knows that everybody is looking, so play with this fact. Don't focus on exchanging info, but focus on creating a connection/feeling with the girl that she wants to meet you again.

My experiences are that the girls here are more open for your game. If you enter the venue, make sure people notice you. Make them laugh, smile, eye contact.

Opening sets is so easy: you just join the group and introduce yourself and play the game.

How to open:
- "do I need to rescue you?' (when the girl is already talking to an AFC)
- "ahhh, they all want me. Am i safe here with you? '
- 'Hey! Yes i know, i am bit underdressed Why do people take this so seriously?
- 'How often do you go to such events? [wait for her answer and her question back]. Me? daily

AnthonyPham, youre a star
This is the feedback I needed.

Got reasonable inner game but my years of being taught good manners by my parents hindered my approaching of single sets, not group sets. Using a light-hearted teasing, or cock funny approach breaks down the possibility of appearing to AMOG. Your feedback will definitely help.

Feel like I should play the king of the castle, where I increase the social standing by working the room, approaching, breaking rapport (with a bit of Kino) and coming back to close the high HB's on the second pass.
As a strategy, what do you guys think?

Just be direct. Say something along the lines of wanting to meet her. At singles events, women have the frame of mind that they're going to be approached and hit on.

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