I am one of these people that after spending a few years of reading stuff, I could write a book about it.
But I just find that I forget everything when it matters. Anyone else have this problem and how do you get over it?

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You don't "forget". You know these things from an analytic standpoint , in theory.
However you don't know them in practice.


Think of it as learning a new language. At first , you can understand what you're being told or you can make sense of a read text. However ,an actual conversation won't flow quite the way you'd expect it to.
But then , if you practice enough eventually you start thinking in that language. Speaking it becomes as natural as your first language.



So yeah , practice more.

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I have the same problem BUT it doesn't take me years to fix it. Right now, I'm getting into the groove of Traveler's approach using Alex's method of RSD.

So I've read Traveler's stuff several times, wrote down the steps and even recorded it on my phone as I read each process step. Next, I sarged infield (some 3 minutes away from my apartment) for 1 to 2 hours and then got back to my place and made a quick run down whether I followed the steps to the letter. I also played the recordings as I sleep. This went on for more or less 3 to 4 weeks.

I kept making the same mistakes for several days BUT as I sarged and implemented the steps day-by-day, the mistakes became lesser and my sarges using this approach had become smoother.

A few more weeks I think and I'll get this perfect.

It's basically practice makes perfect. I think this is the formula:

(Thought + Action) x 7 days x 4 weeks = Very Minimal Mistakes

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thanks guys .. some good tips.

I was thinking to work with a pua instructor and have him watch over me

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massive action.

You've educated yourself... good for you. But all of that education goes to waste if you don't get out there. Make a plan and dedicate yourself to it. Whatever is manageable to you.... I'd recommend 3 times a week.

Send me a message if you need help developing a plan and keeping accountability for yourself.

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Answer me this question: how long do you think it will take to get this down?

EDIT: Just gonna answer it from my perspective. I'm 2 years and a bit into this and I am still learning. I thought the road would be fast, but it is much slower than you think. When we talk about "fast" progress, we're talking months here.