My question meant what's stopping you from cheating? This will be the biggest fear of most women because of your lifestyle. If you would cheat, then sensible women are going to see this from you and know that your lifestyle will give you oppurtunities you will take. If you wouldn't then ask yourself why? If it's morals or past relationships or whatever, try communicating this early in some way. Like if you were hiring a guy who had a prison record for theft you'd be more likely to trust him if he told you upfront how prison changed his view points on stealing than just taking his word. Meaning, the assumption you'll stray is already there so show them beforehand why you wouldn't.

This has haunted me for years and the older I get the less I believe that monogamy works. It sucks to love whores, huh?

I think the trick is qualification. Its up to you to find the diamond in the rough...no matter how long it takes. To me PUA was always improving my skill set so that when I meet that woman I can strike. Then when that works out realize that its more than likely temporary and that you'll be doing it all over again one day but its on you to find that one that works and never settle.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

There are women who are good girls, and many of them can turn into major whores in the sack. But I think it comes with age, and she has to feel like you won't judge her. Women are just as subject to the madonna/whore complex as men are. They are told all their life to keep their knees together. When you find a good girl, it just takes effort on your part to encourage her to part them for you.

Classic example. My wife never gave head, never let me do it to her, and anal happened once a year, maybe. 10 years later, it's in her ass twice a week or so, she swallows not just for me but for other guys when we are swinging, and we are trying for threesomes but are finding women tough to find.

Some good girls have whores in them that they keep hidden. Some don't. Just takes the right girl. My problem in my marriage was not sexual, in fact, that ended up being about the only thing that was working well when the shit hit the fan. Largely I think you just need to adjust your screening to land more good girls. Also, you should note it took years for my wife to open up. You're not likely to get a good girl to be a complete whore in bed in a few dates. But the signs of potential are there. Mainly, if she can orgasm multiple times when you're doing it, it's likely she can open up and become more slutty for you. If not, then I'd be wary. As you get older too you might find good girls who are more sexually open because they are hitting their peaks.

You have a lifestyle similar to mine. I study 40 hours a week and work 25. What has worked for me is two things:

1: being upfront with what I want (huge time saver). You can litterally say to a girl that you want a are looking for a partner the first time you meet.

2: Make sure she has a life equally exciting as yours. If she is not understanding of you not being able to answer her text because you worked till 5, had your side bussiness untill 9 and then went to a gigg to 01 then she is not right for you. Also communicating this early on saves time.

The plus is that when you meet a girl who has a matching life style as you, she will probably be very excited since you are a rare potentiall mate for her. IMO busy people are rare

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No matter what, I must live without regret

Life is good

Live it for yourself