Hey everyone, need some advice!

Last night I was at my ex's 24th (broke up a year ago, were together for 4 years, still pretty cut up about it but reading/watching a load of PUA stuff has really helped over the last year). Anyway, wasn't having the greatest time as my ex had a new boyfriend I didn't know about and wasn't exactly being very subtle about it, but fortunately I ended up making out with a gorgeous friend of mine who I've recently started talking to again for the first time in about 5 years (had a bit of history back then, hooked up back in the day but didn't go anywhere as she was a bit young and a bit boring). She just randomly kissed me out of nowhere and although we were both plastered, it felt like it wasn't just the alcohol that caused it.

This morning I decided to ask her out, said something along the lines of "I think we'd both be depriving ourselves of an amazing time together if we didn't go out on a date. Whadaya say?" She replied with "It could be fun! I've got heaps to do before Christmas and am out of town for a few days but we'll sort something out after Boxing Day "

So feeling pretty good about it all day, trying not to get my hopes up but pretty hard since she's smoking hot and I haven't gotten any action in a few months... anyway, earlier tonight I get a message from her, "Hey, I feel really bad about what happened. I actually found out from [friend] who told me this morning. I thought I should let you know that I'm kind of into someone at the moment so it's bad timing :\ I'm so sorry".

Pretty fucking gutted but not wanting to let it show, I replied with; "Hey its no problem, don't feel bad! Guess it just felt like it was motivated by more than just booze, so thought you might be interested in coming out for a more sober night and seeing how it went, nothing serious but that's cool if you wouldn't feel comfortable, the offer's on the table if you change your mind!" and she responded with "Yeah I see what you mean. It's hard to know cause I haven't been that drunk in about half a year. It's super nice of you to be so awesome about it. It probably would be pretty cool to catch up properly and everything. Just thought it'd be pretty rude of me to not be honest about everything you know! Maybe we can still do something in the next couple of weeks? "

So that's pretty much it! Did I say the wrong thing or was she really just too drunk to know what she was doing? Any advice on how I can win her over, or at least get her into bed?

Cheers guys!

1. Rule of thumb... don't ask a girl out on a "date"... and give her the power by saying "whadya say???" Sounds cheesy. I would have just parted ways with her and texted her later saying " Hey I'm going to take you out to *location* *place & time*... always call the shots like you're leading and you know she's gonna say yes.

2. Good job for getting her to hang out with you again if she does. "I'm kind into someone at the moment" sounds like a lame excuse. Very lame excuse... but hey she was drunk maybe she genuinely felt uncomfortable. My only issue with this situation is she might be expecting you to be some nice guy and you have your work cut out for you because you were both drunk when you were last with her.

3. Stop putting her on a pedestal. Who gives a shit if she's hot... you need to go into this with a mind state that you're not afraid of rejection. Be confident and don't be too apologetic. Flirt and Tease with her to build attraction and establish that you're not looking for a cute innocent friendship. Physically escalate throughout the date by touching her hand at the right moments (using Kino) etc etc....

it's a lot to grasp and I don't know what you've learned already... but if you have any more specific questions just send me a message... ill respond as quick as possible.

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Cheers man, that's a big help! She is still keen to hang out but just as a 'catch-up', so hopefully can woo her when we're actually together in person.

good luck! keep me updated

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Don't feel gutted bro. You gave it a shot and handled the whole thing well. Her initial text back to you was basically an anti-slut-defense move as in saying "I'm not that easy" that I'm going to kiss a guy then go out on a date with him etc. After finding out about the kiss she was creeped out on the notion of the date.

BUT THE GIRL IS PROPOSING FOR YOU TO STILL MEET UP WITH HER.

I think there's still a very good shot to take this girl out and escalate. A couple of drinks, one thing led to another, you know the story.

Best way forward in any case is to meet more girls but this one is still very much in play. Like the earlier post said, she's just a girl so no need to get too invested in however the situation plays out. There are more girls right around the corner.