Okay, I'm going to give the story from start to finish because I need help...

Day 1: I got her number via DM on Twitter and we started stalking on the phone. We spoke for hours about a bunch of stuff from university to sex to everything. She mentioned that she had a guy that was trying to get to her but she wasn't sure if she was interested. By the end of this conversation, she said she wanted to see me.

Day 2: Same old, long conversation, good stuff. Progress made.

Day 3: She SPAM me and long story short, she gave me a show on SPAM. Fingered herself till she squirted... Got naked... all sorts. We agreed for her to come over 2 days later.

Day 4: She tells me that she can't come anymore because that guy she said she was talking to has said he wants a real long term relationship and since she likes me, she's scared that she'll fuck it up by coming to see me. I got annoyed at her at first but then in the end I just said okay, and I tried one of the BD techniques by saying something like "It's great you've found a man that can treat you like a queen" blah blah blah

Day 5: We don't talk.

Day 6: We talk and I say a few things to get under her skin but she's adamant shes doing whats right for her and she doesn't want to fuck up

Day 7: We talk for like 2 hours and she's saying how she doesn't want to call the other guy because she prefers talking to me..

Sidenote: She says that she thinks I'm rude and arrogant

What do I do now? I really wanna get this lay out of my system. Help

The fact that she is talking to you about a serious relationship clearly indicates her interest to you.
Just chill... She calls you rude and arrogant - that's perfectly okay. This is just a shit test.
Next time when she tells you are arrogant . JUst be like : Do you know what if I wasn't arrogant, otherwise I would have been extremely attractive ( something like that ). Conclusion: shit test passed .

Few tips.

- Don't overthink.
- Don't instantly answer to her messages (delay answering with 2 - 3 hours sometimes)
- Act like you are the prize


I hope that helps

I'd go no contact. Let her come to you now. Seriously if you'd have other girls this wouldn't be such a big deal.

Thanks dude