I am going out tonight with my friend and my target will be at the pub where we are going. We are friends but last week we ended making out for quite long time. I would like to repeat that day:D. That time it was easy, because she didnt have her friends around and we were sitting next to each other. Now the chances are she will sit on a place where I can't kino. I should probably become interesting for the group first but I don't know how. How can i make her sit next to me or go talk somewhere 1on1? I don't want to make it look like I am falling for her because she might loose interest. So what whould you guys do in my situation? Maybe we won't even sit with her and her friends. Help me please

Hey man, I will start with a few questions:

- did you have any interaction since last week? meeting, calling, texting...
- did you discuss in any way the "incident"?
- were either of you under the influence at the time of the "incident"?

Leaving out the pieces of missing information, I would say that after a make out you should not have waited until next weekend to continue the interaction. You should have called her and get together so you have the right environment for escalation. Don't leave it up to chance to set up a day 2. Next, if you haven't called her since last week, she may think that you are not interested and when you meet again, have that awkward interaction with you that happens when you make out with somebody and don't continue...

We just texted, but we did not talk about it trough text. We have also met at the pub week after making out. We have talked about it a little bit but only in kind of fun way (she asked me if i liked it). The problem is she told me she hates when a guy follows her and texts her all the time after they have had something. Before anything happend we also talked about relationships and she told me she doesnt want any. I agreed because that time i didnt want anything. You know.. you always want what you cant have, but I have got to try:) I did not show her that much interest, because I am scared of doing it.. I dont know how to do it correctly:/. Need any more details?

you could have invited her for drinks at your place and escalated there... even if she doesn't want a relationship, she still has needs and you can fulfil them. If your interactions happen at the pub only, there's little chance to take it further. You should be cool about her not wanting a relationship, after all, she was open and honest about it.

When she asked if you liked it, you should have answered in a playful way "I don't really remember, show me again how that goes" or "I guess it was ok, we should practice some more", anything that both takes the edge off you making out and conveys that you want more of that.

take this whole thing casually, with the "It's no big deal" frame and she will loosen up. She's likely turned off by typical AFC boyfriend behaviour, so don't give her that. Instead, give her the best of both worlds, a seducer that makes her feel good when you are together and a free spirited guy that gives her the space she needs. If your needs exceed what she can offer and she doesn't change her mind, be honest about it and don't let it cause frustration between the two of you...