Hi there. This is my first post on the PUA forum, so sort if it is in the wrong place.

Basically I am dating a girl, I am 18 and so is she, but apparently she doesn't like anything sexual, she hated when her Ex's fingered her and other stuff. She has done everything except sex.

She has sent me naked photos of her (I jokingly said "I'm bored, entertain me").

But she says she is scared by the thought of sex, and she doesn't like being fingered and stuff.

What should I do? I can't go the next year without sex (as many guys would agree) and I really like her. I am respecting the fact that she is not into it, but how do I show her that its not that bad and she will enjoy it? How do I kino escalate correctly to do this?

Any tips and advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
VaMoose

I'm new to pua, but I had a similar problem with a girl when I was younger.
Here's how I solved it back then

If she doesn't want to have sex with you, be open about it and tell her that you are ok with it and that you'll just masturbate to internet porn. (Step 1 make her feel the need to reassure her sexual attractiveness)

Start looking at other women sexually, don't overdo it but do it some times when you two are around town.(Step 2 make her feel she might lose you to someone else, that actually does want to have sex with you)

After you completed step #1 and #2, the next time you make out with her, stop in the middle and say:"I feel like you don't want me to be close to you anymore" Then stand up and leave.

Do it on your own risk, I don't know if this does actually work from a scrapbook, but that's basically what I did back then just by the way I felt. And she jumped me a short while after. (In your case it's mind fucking so you might want to consider not doing it)

Best of luck
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Talk to her about it. There's a possibility she may have had a traumatic experience during a sexual encounter, maybe you can talk to her and ask why she isn't into sex.

It also could be that she's scared to have sex and isn't ready. It's all about talking to her and finding out why she is feeling that way.