I'm a total noob here, girl is a 10 and way out of my league in terms of looks so i'm very down lol, let me know how I'm doing and where to go next. I'm gonna wait a day or two to text her again.

convo:
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I think your JK Rowling neg was brilliant. The conversation needs more teasing I would say. You seem to slip into interrogation mode. Be more fun, try to make the conversation interesting for you and funny for you. Maybe just say something drastic and fun and relish the result.

Yeah its tough to resist asking questions lol I just wanna know more about the person I talk to so that I don't meet in person and be like damn you're boring

I can understand that. I struggle with Text game as I tend to want to keep all questions for when I am with them in person. It might sound rather silly but you should try to create a few jokes that the two of you can share. That is key I would say. You'll get closer through laughing, she'll associate those good times with you and through doing this she will open up more to you. The thing is it is hard to force comedy and force jokes. You should try to work out what makes her laugh and then blend that with something that you find funny.

Go out and buy some new stuff, a pair of jeans, shirt something that makes you feel great and confident. Get a new sharp haircut from a good professional hairdresser. trust me that will give you more self esteem. If you feel bad you look bad, remember this.

In order to text her and get real results you should neg her, and the neg should be for her ego not for her looks. All girls have huge ego and you should take advantage of that.

here is some example to explain better:
you: hey, quick question. Kissing is cheating?
her: it really doesn't matter what she says but don't a fool and at least try to pay attention
you: would you cheat on someone?
her: she will say no into a form or another
you: girls... you are all the same. None of you have courage to admit the truth... i thought you were diffrent :O


next thing you know is that she will qualify for you. trick her to be more open to you using her ego. When she's a bitch, don't take up that crap and shut her up in a very nice mode "that was mean..." or "what a rude thing to say"

"don't be mean with me, i'm different form the guys you know, (try to imply that you are better)... you will see" say this once or twice and don't oversell it...


In oder to use her ego in your favor say things like "you don't have the courage to admit" or "i know you will never do that, i don't think you are that wild as i thought"

Shall i explain more?

Explain more, I want to read more.

UPDATE:

thanks for all the advice it's actually helping a lot haha I got impatient but put myself in a good place to do that ego neg you're talking about, take a read and tell me what you think

me: omg guess what
her: what
me: did you know that the human body contains enough bones to build an entire skeleton?!
her: -_- aha very funny
me: I knew you'd like that aha maybe I'll tell you another one when you ask me out
her: oho who says I want to

It seems a little risky saying "you girls are all the same", won't saying something like that sound a bit ignorant.

How is it progressing otherwise though PD? Where do you plan to take it and how?

This was nice by the way. You should say something that will get her emotions running like:

Hey..
I have something I really need to tell you, it's really important

She'll begin to panic and worry

Let her stew for a short while then send something really silly and banal like:

I'm really hungry


Though something better than that. Something that will make her smile and go "oh for god's sake!".

Update:

me: Easy there casanova I don't think that's the right attitude to get me on a date lol
her: you're pretty jokes
me: You're not bad yourself gimme your number and maybe I'll take you out when I'm back in *****

awaiting number lol what do of she doesn't hit me back, I was thinking just send "^" haha

I would cease using "lol" it isn't very confident.

It's like your excusing yourself for what you've said, its like the equivalent of avoiding eye contact in person.

goooood call thanks man, also no reply which suuucks I'll wait till the morning before I text her again

Have a conversation that really will captivate her, negs too man!.

Two questions:

1) what should I say since she hasn't responded to me asking for her number **edit: nvm got her number yeyuh

2) I'm out of province until the 4th, how do I keep up interest until then so I can setup a date when I'm back

thanks for the help guys

Now can somebody else contribute also before you act upon what I suggest as I am not 100% if it is the best thing to do.

I would say you text her sparsely over the next few weeks. If you don't text she will be curious and wonder what you are doing. You should be too busy and having to much fun to text her (so she'll think). She will be living it up anyway as she is bound to have a healthy social circle if she is an attractive girl. So she will be busy and not too interested in a long daily texting session day in day out. When you do text her it should be something funny, I know I keep saying this but it is the key!, check the forum for some examples.

Now I am not sure if thats the best way to do this but I would go about it like that.