Im thinking of 2 girls I recently went on some dates with.

Girl 1 -
Date one in a bar in evening, drinking, me and her.. kissing all good. Managed to arrange date two.
Date two at night, bowling, food, drinking, dancing, kissing all good. Managed to arrange date three.
Date three for lunch in the day.. little alcohol (not much) kissing.. but she flaked on date.. haven't seen her since.

Girl 2 -
Date one in a bar at night, alchohol,.. kissing etc..
Date two in the day for food in local area.. no kissing.. she didn't get in contact since when I tried her.

I know people will say 'if your game is really good it doesn't matter' and that maybe the case, but if you game isn't that good and you haven't yet f closed/hooked her properly.. is a daytime meet a bit of an anti climax and a potential killer?

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here to learn.. thats all.

friends go out to lunch

if you want to be her lover do things that lovers do

you can go out for lunch and a chat with your girlfriend, but while you're dating you want the option of it leading to the bedroom

better still invite her over (tell her to bring the wine) you cook dinner, then you watch half a movie

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those who say it can't be done should get the fuck out the way of those doing it

Yes, day time dates suck. I wrote about it here: http://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/6 ... a-bad-idea. I NEVER agree to a day date with a girl I haven't already had sex with or at least gotten pretty intimate with.

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I can see lunch dates being classified as more friendly than sexual. I prefer night time dates, and only go on lunch dates if we've been out many times prior, and all night dates of course.