Hey all,

One day in October I was on youtube and suddenly there was a recommended video "Pick up girls by Kezia Noble" and that's how it started...But first I would like to start with my background to understand my story...

like many here I am also pretty bad with women.

As a 22 I had literally no experience with women and by that I had only 2 kiss closures and only once sex. I shall better not start what a disaster that was! All successes (if I may call that so) happened because of luck or alcohol or both. I had no game!

Thins changed last year around November when I met a great girl. She was quite special and I fell in love with her really quickly. I always said I have no idea how we came together, but I broke down every single detail I could recall and I came to the conclusion that it happened because of my me. I was really comfortable with myself, I felt very confident, I was in pretty good shape, I had ambitions, my state of mind was great... to conclude I was behaving like a real man and so we started to date.

My feelings were really strong for her and I am pretty sure I was obsessed with her. She was my dream woman at that point. Bud during our 6 month relationship I became more and more a different person. I was emotional, insecure, jelaous and I only wanted to be with her and with no one else. That started to suffocate her and I didn't see that. I also lost track of who I am. I was no longer the man who she felt in love with, I was far from that what I used to be.

She completely lost respect for me and when she broke up with me, she immediately started to date another guy, I think she started the day we broke up! I was at that point a replaceble and forgettable guy who was a noone! She made that very clear to me! This hurts even now if I think about that and that happened 6 months ago. I am still not over her and those things still hurt even though I had some successes after her...

All started to changed with an innocent video by Kezia Noble. Soon I read her book about those 15 steps to become a seducer and I started to look at things differently. Then I watched Mystery's show on VH1 and right now I am on page 288 reading The Game and those insights are quite hard to believe! A must try out!

I look now at those things from another angle, but so far I wasn't really "gaming". Well I feel at some days really confident, but I still haven't kicked myself in the butt and start to play the game! I had some success since the painful break up (3 kiss closures!), but those were lucky closures!

My goal is to be better with women! I want to date women i deserve, because I know of what I am capable of! Can't wait to become a part of the community! First step done!

What's up. My name's Spitice or you can call me Jimmy. I'm a little new to the game, myself. I'm 18 and I've spent most of my life by myself. I always wanted to talk to people and make friends, but my depression from 7th grade kept me from doing so. I couldn't kill myself or live with the pain, so I studied psychology for years until I cured myself. In the end, I got a whooooole lot more. Most of seduction I had already learned along with soooo much more. I plan to be the best psychologist ever and I plan to create a fool-proof program that cures depression. No one should have to suffer like I did. Most of my life now is spent on becoming social via making friends, being the life of parties, and a master seducer. I stutter (pretty bad), I'm shy, and on the spot, I have no idea what to talk about, but everyday I get closer and closer to the real me and not this fake shy insecure person I've been forced to be. I plan to become the best seducer there has ever been (sorry style and mystery). We can do anything we set our minds to. We just have to keep trying. Let's play this game and play until we get head shots and never miss.

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- Spitice

It always good to know there is someone who is far worse than you and that person, unfortunately, is me. I am just like you, 22. And I know the existence of PUA by reading the book by Kezia. I gotta say, she is hot, don't you agree? ha ha ha. The first book i read about this dating which make my confidence skyrocketing was the TAO of Badass. Then i become a bit obsess with this seduction stuff which lead me to read another books like Sun Tzu for Seduction, Art of Approaching and so on.

Anyway, just like you, when i am 21, i got almost no knowledge about this dating stuff and girls. But unlike you, when i reach 21, i never kiss nor have sex with any girl and worse, i never have any girl friend before. I only have crush which most of them never even bother to consider how i feel for them, at least that's the way i see it.

Is this coincidence? You met a great girl last year on November right? Me too and i quickly fall in love with her, only to be rejected and avoided. Now i still can't forget about her but the pain is not too great like before. I got more success with girls lately but not yet the point of in a relationship. I am still training. hehehe

Yep.. I think we've all quickly fallen in love with a girl to only get hurt. I don't know if this is relivant to you guys, but I've recently been trying to help this girl and guy keep their relationship going strong. I've noticed that the guy tries so hard to make her feel good about herself, but then when he doesn't get the results be feels he deserves, he gets angry and feels hurt and blows up on her.

This used to be the way I was at once so it really got me thinking. I told him that too much of a good thing is a bad thing. If you spoil your childern, they will be less likely to love and respect, but if you beat that ass, they give you love and respect.. I've seen this so many times. If we eat snickers all the time because it's our favorite, we will probably get tired of it all the time and try something different. The point is that if we always get something, it loses value because we always have it.

You should reward and punish your girl. By doing this, you teach her how to treat you. It's B.F. Skinner's Operant Learning, which mentions that one of the ways that we learn is by being punished to stop us from doing things again and being reinforced to influence us to do it again. It's just simply a way we learn and understanding that can become very useful in seduction.

For relationships to last, I believe that both partners have to be somewhat equal in pleasing each other. If she isn't doing what you want her to, you should change that. You should never give her too much more then she gives you. It puts a lot on her and takes a lot away form you. Which breaks the balance.

I showed showed the message I sent to him to his girl and she agreed. Btw if you havent figured it out yet, the girl has low self esteem and is very emotional. Even though she's an 8.5, she likes this guy because he is sweet to her and she can relate to him because they both have low self esteem.

I told them both that as far as relationships go (not quite attraction), it is mainly based on teamwork and honesty. She shouldn't hide things from him because she's afraid he'd blow up on her. If she has something on her chest she needs to get out, she needs to say it and they should work together to solve that problem.

Eh just me stating random things Hope I helped a bit

- Spitice

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That's some pretty nice thoughts! I can only wish the best of luck and lots of wins in the game

I hope we're not competing who did worse hehe..I must agree Kezia is hot and she is so full of confidence. I would probably totally freeze out if I would had the chance to meet her

Man I feel a bit sorry and happy for you for falling in love. I am sorry for you that I didn't end up with her, but I am happy that you learnt something! I am still hurted and even though it is christmas eve I am not depressed, because I am so happy with myself I learnt that in order to have a healthy relationship you must be first happy as an invidual. You shouln't seek for happines in a relationship.