| Known HB8 for many years family members best friend, had fling when we first met. After years of being acquaintances and not giving her the time of day I find out she's into me from very reliable source. Invite her for weekend with me, blow each other's phones up for two weeks with texts. Turns into 72 hour date, sleep in the same bed every night, lots of Kino, lots of IOI, passed many obvious shit tests, lots of push pull, but failed to escalate.
The bad, caught a case of oneitus, texted her on Monday. Shes starts to go cold (should have called) instead pushed through and went for 2nd date by text, get flaked with no counter offer.
The good, freeze her out and broke the case of oneitus last night, found a new HB9 that just started at local coffee place that just opened was running late for work didn't get to sarge but got positive looks, going to tomorrow early enough to pull numbers. I started using fb again, dropped a DHV status (haven't posted in months), post on friends page about how much fun the party is going to be (not mutual friends so only in her newstream) there's gonna be lots of HB at party as well, plan on getting pics and numbers.
Going to see family soon, didn't tell her (still on freeze out), find out she told my family about what great of a time she had and got confirmation of legit reason for flake and confirmation of how busy her week is.
Here's where I'm stuck, >75% chance of seeing her at family's while hanging out. Didn't confirm time of arrival or if I'm spending the night as I know she's going to go right back to her.
What would you do? I'm thinking don't post on FB till I have the party pics from party and don't tell her I'm coming to town or that i'm off work for a week. With how well I know her, she's probably going to invite me out, if I say yes, it would probably escalate but, it could backfire and I would lose value for skipping out on known event with friends.
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