friday night i got a fb message from this girl i knew from the club and around town. she talk about how bored she was and wanted to know what i was up to. i told her that i was at a party and she could hang with us. She declined because one of my friends she didn't like. So I told her how busy i was and could only be free tomorrow she agreed for us to have a few drinks. When I met her the next night She told me how excited she was to see me and looked pretty excited. She talked about how she recently broke up with her boyfriend and how she knew that I was a player. And that I fucked a lot of girls. I just told her that I was just a sociable guy I like talking to lots of people. She's telling me that I look nervous I was a little. You know wasn't it's only been my second time being with an older woman she was 28 and she was an 8. i started to escalate with kino she told me i'm not going to fuck you tonight i'm not that type of girl. And I told her I just wanted to hang out and have a good time and if it happens it happens. A couple minutes later I wanted to kiss and this time we did kiss because earlier i was only able to kiss her on her cheek. i talked about the lounge the next block away and she agreed we walk to this lounge. We start talking about past relationships and everything led to a deep connection. I talked about my major and she looked and said that she was pretty impressed. And how best pretty cool that you're in school and how i was about to finish so I make sure to talk about higher value with her. she talk about how her last few boyfriends were asswholes and her last one went to rehab for drugs and how she still love him. then she talk about how great and good looking of a guy i was and how shock she was to know i wanted to chill with her. During the whole interaction she would just talk about how she's not trying to fuck on the first night I just said I'm just here to have fun. Every time I talk about something she was saying something About sex. And then when I did talk about sex she would always tell me I'm not having sex with you on the first night I'm not that type of girl. At the end of the night she said that she can't drive back because she's was a little too drunk so you can spend the night over my house if you want so I agreed and Drove her back to her house. Got to the house we just talk for little bit try to escalate and stuff but she when she wouldn't happen she said you can just cuddle, make out and that all. I was basically just cuddle with her the whole night she wouldn't let me fuck. But I could tell that she wanted to fuck but I didn't know how to get through her last minute resistance test. So how do I handle last minute resistance from girls and Seems like that's the one skill I lack in the most?

hey man, aside from recommending that you read the writings of Mystery on the topic, here's a few basic tips and tricks you can use...

1. freeze-outs: basically you interrupt the making out and change the mood of the interaction completely... when she stops you from escalating further, you cut the make-out and start to check your phone, go to the restroom, turn on the lights... some 10 minutes later, you re-start making out and escalating... wash, rinse, repeat until you f-close...

2. agreeing with her: when she says "we're not having sex tonight" you agree with her "it would be totally wrong for us to have sex tonight" while escalating further... this confuses her, and in the same time sets the frame of the "forbidden fruit"...

3. reverse escalation: you get her to touch you, nothing is off limits, this will get her in the mood faster than if you are the only one doing the touching...

What is equally important is what NOT TO DO... here it goes:

1. Trying to convince her with logical reasons, will only allow her to find more reasons not to sleep with you

2. Telling her whatever she wants to hear (e.g. that you are interested in a relationship) when you are lying about it... this will put you in the douche-bag category...

3. Acting offended about her rejection of sex; it's different than a freeze-out, which comes of as casual and aloof... being offended will show her that you are reactive and weak...

I hope this helps, good luck!

GREAT post by Redlight on LMR.

You definitely want to not act emotionally affected at all by LMR.