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If you're new I really do recommend spending a lot of time away from your computer and outside (in HD) talking to strangers to improve your social skills, part of the process is catching up on years of lost social interaction
thing is most people don't spend several hours a week speaking to strangers and building comfort with them
so you can get to be a more skilled conversationalist than most people if you commit to it

Absolutely right.
Soaking in information like a sponge is great, but only if you apply everything you soaked in! If you "soak in" more than you apply in real life, you're gonna have a bad time.