| What up Gents,
I was pretty much an alpha since I noticed the opposite sex.. Up until I settled down with a chick at 24, I would be one of those kids who would relish in rejection almost as much as having a successful close. I then went to Grad school and coupled with a pretty steady relationship, I started noticing my devil-may-care attitude towards women seemed to diminish. I thought being a former alpha turned somewhat beta man was a natural progression for a man to take. I got complacent and as a result, my then-fiance got plucked by some B-list rapper named Doxamillion (I couldn't even make this up).
So I spiraled, started dating without realizing I was a shell of my former Alpha self, and as a result, the rejections began to pile up. I felt like I was finally paying my dues for the previous success I had with women, and the more and more I went through these rejections, the worse it got. I finally started to get serious about my game and it led me to start taking a hard look at my approach. I realized if I wanted to be successful again, I needed to face my fear, which was what everyone here has to get through prior to really getting this thing... Rejection.
I started last week going to the mall during my lunch break, just smiling and asking women how they were doing.. After a horrible wednesday of being rejected basically every chick I walked up to, I decided to give things another try on thursday.. It's crazy how my luck changed in just one day. Without getting into details, the bottom line is that it's really a numbers game. Once you realize that and are indifferent as to the results, women pick up on it and your mystique and the rest is just inner-game.
Anyways, sorry about the long post.. I definitely look forward to detailing my results as I continue to learn to cope with rejection without taking it personal.
regards,
inxile
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