My game is starting to get a little better. I'm able to approach and attract to get a kiss close. But What are a couple ways to get her to invest in you. And for her to qualify herself to you a lot more Even after you exchange numbers and Leave the set?

Here are few ideas:
- minimize attraction game and start qualifying as soon as you can. That doesn't mean opening with "Hi, I'm Defy. What do you have going for you more than your looks". But as soon as you have her laughing on your opener, on your dhv story, whatever, ask her her something and reward her for that.
- my first qualifier is "What do you do?". I ask that when she's pumped even if I'm in set only a minute. She says "Nurse, teacher, whatever". I reply with "Ough, that's great. I love that you help people." Then I hug her, high five her. Then I go into a next peace and qualify again and connect it what I previosly found out about her. Say I do best friends test and she is a "good girl", I say you are a good girl, but I already knew that because you like helping people.
- idea is that pumping her emotions with attraction game and mixing it with qualifications that create connection. Also, I think you need to create your own qualification material based on what you are looking for in a girl. Traditional qualification material I could find online doesn't really work for me, because I don't care for those questions. So find something that interests you and always follow the rule of reward and punishement. That means IOIing her when she deserves it and IODing her when she deserves it.
- include kino into this and I think you are good to go. I might forgot something here, but basically this works for me in a sense that I can create a genuine connection in less than 10 minutes and have her be enthusiastic when I call the next day.
- Also this is a big thing. You are there to have fun, you are there to enjoy yourself, you are not there for her, and even when you close her, you can still enjoy and have fun with other girls even if she sees you doing that.

hope this helps.

BR,
Defy

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The more valuable she sees you as being in the initial interaction, the more she will be willing to invest. Just as you would invest more into the sight of a Ferrari in opposition to the site of a honda accord. Now, you'd probably be willing to drive both if you had no other means of transportation; but I'm sure you would put a lot more effort into obtaining the Ferrari than you would the honda.

The more luxury your initial game, the more luxury their investment. Just keep getting out there.

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thank you I really was thing about what you guys were saying these are great ideas and also how I need to make my own material to. I need to do a better job on investment and value.

I do have two more questions what ways can i get her to invest physically and emotionally?