My first jump into the PUA forum pool -- up front...thanks for your time and help guys. I know the title seems evil but you won't believe what I witnessed 2 Saturdays ago.

I went to a small Irish pub near a state college which was packed with students. I went with 2 of my buddies and staked out a large table because we invited several people to meet us (7 more to be exact).

Besides me and my 2 buddies the roster was as follows: my X, her 2 friends, an orbiter of one of my X's friends, a girl my buddy Ike invited, Ike's girl cousin (not a target -- we have respect for our buddy) who brought a HB9.5 (who Rick coincidentally knew from back in highschool) along with, unfortunately, her "fiance" (a fact we found out later)

"Fiance" was the most pitiful and painful sight I've seen thus far throughtout my 22 years of life -- he was a decent looking guy but he was at HB9.5's every beck and call. The HB9.5 might as well have been holding a saucer which he could have lapped up milk from like a needy puppy dog. "This girl wore the pants" is a monumental understatement. I've never witnessed it at this magnitude before.

I mean the girl sent my buddy Rick (an x-breakdancer she remembered from highschool) IOI's immediatly -- her "fiance" clearly had no game or any value whatsoever -- unless u consider acting like Paris Hiltons handbag dog, wide and glassy eyed, valueable. He was oblivious to her flirting in front of his face. Hell, she even IOI'ed me 2 minutes into meeting me.

The 3 girls we brought along even sensed "fiance's" pitifulness almost immediatly and questioned me privately how it was possible that they were together and if it was true. I know I sound jelous (I was slightly!) but I know this relationship was just HB9.5 feeding off having total control over another human (can not stress total enough).

We quickly urged Rick to pursue her (he had the highschool-in) but he got too drunk and sloppy and blew his chances (probably permenantly). I almost regret not stepping in myself but I didnt want to push my luck because Ike's cousin was angrily telling me to stop drunk Rick from hitting on her (which her pitiful "fiance" didn't even notice due to his starring at HB9.5 for 99% of the night while she barely acknowledged him -- I was about to hand him a napkin to wipe up his drool).

When I found out they were "engaged" a week later my jaw hit the ground. I figured he was a temporary boy-toy. If they get married, which I doubt...she will certainly cheat on him frequently (how could she not?)

Look at it this way: we can save this "fiance" from his one-itis and much greater heartbreak (if your feeling amoral).

Don't think she will cheat? She nearly did that night on the other side of the bar with an random AMOG while "fiance" sat at our table like a good little doggy while she went to get herself a drink ("fiance" was already intoxicated with his needy obsession and therefore didn't need a drink) and she probably would have sucked the AMOG's face right then and there if she hadn't noticed me passing by to use the bathroom.

Anyway...I think I'm going to have a chance to hang out with this HB9.5 again soon via Ike's cousin's superbowl party...any suggestions/destroyers to nip this "fiance" in the bud and take him out of his potential misery?

i dont read walls of text, reformat plz.

I LOL'd. Anyone else find this funny.

Anyway, Lamb sounds like this girl needs some entertainment, and fast. Get in there and give her a good time. Don't worry, you didn't "blow" your chances, if anything her pushover fiance is probably making you look so god damn fuckable right now.

I'm only giving you this advice cause I'm in a similar situation. Met a HB9 at a party the other day, push pull, IOI's, got her blushing before I started talking to her in fact with just my body language. The girl's fiance is in Cali, I'm in NE with her. Never met the guy, but wtf they're engaged and they probably see each other once every three months. I say she's a woman, she's human, she has needs---I can give that to her and more.

Tricky part is keeping it discrete, looking for a good time and nothing more. Good luck mate.

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There's one I think from Tyler Durden that goes like this:

Roads -- "keeping it discrete, looking for a good time and nothing more" haha great motivation right there...thank u


WhiteShoes -- thanks for pullin that quote i appreciate the research...its likely to be used very soon

best,
Lamb