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| transforming | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 5:13 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue May 28, 2013 7:33 am Posts: 170 | | During A3, we need to qualify the target. However, during C1(connection building), Mystery said, “I was never given an instruction manual on how to be human, I’m just taking things one day at a time, and I don’t know why, but I feel very drawn to you.” Aren't both contradictory?
During A3(qualification), you basically let your target know that you like her for a legitimate reason, there is something in her that attracts you. But during C1, you tell her,“I was never given an instruction manual on how to be human, I’m just taking things one day at a time, and I don’t know why, but I feel very drawn to you.” Doesn't it contradict what you convey during A3?
Please advise.
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| Redlight | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 1:07 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Apr 20, 2012 6:51 pm Posts: 391 Location: Timisoara, Romania | | Not really... In A3 you qualify her by complimenting something NOT PHYSICAL about her ("you got a nice rack" not a choice...) as a response to her giving you IOIs... You give her a "legitimate reason" for carrying on the interaction and lead the way for C1, where you establish a connection with your target... My guess is that the "I don't know why" raised your question; it is not meant as a neg (along the lines "you're not really that attractive"), but to create that feeling of "it just happened" or "we just stumbled upon each other". Makes the target feel special, that's the point of the line...
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| transforming | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 2:42 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue May 28, 2013 7:33 am Posts: 170 | | Thanks for your help, Redlight.
I can often DHV and get a girl interested in me. But I don't know how to do A3(false qualify a girl). I meet some girls, I demonstrate high values and they are interested in me, but I don't know how to false qualify her. Honestly speaking, I just want to have sex with them, I don't think that they can be my girlfriend. I interact with them just because they are young, and their appearance is enough to arouse me. How can I false qualify a girl so she will think that I like her and like her for some reasons so I can enter comfort building phase?
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| Redlight | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 8:25 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Apr 20, 2012 6:51 pm Posts: 391 Location: Timisoara, Romania | | Anytime!
Here are some examples of qualifying a target in A3 based on non-physical traits...
- you are a gym addict, wow, that's so cool... I work out every morning at 7 A.M. (shows appreciation for the target's discipline and establishes a commonality between the two of you)
- I like your sense of fashion... you remind me of these classy french girls from back when I studied a semester in Paris... (appreciation for her style and connection to an experience you had)
- you can take care of yourself... respect! (appreciation for her independence and shows you don't feel threatened)
- you've got such energy... we're so alike... (appreciation for her attitude towards life and establishes commonality)
You can reduce the qualifying line to a simple: you are/have ..........., I am also/I have once/......... you get the point...
I will not go ethical on you and tell you not to lie to these girls, we are here to learn the "how" of getting women, not to debate political correctness... in the spirit of the "how", I would advise you to keep the real reasons to yourself and pretend to like some non-physical qualities of your target. It will get you where you want a lot faster... You can also pull the honest act and tell her more or less directly that you just want an ONS, but that will reduce dramatically your chances... think about that and give them what they want to hear... few women enjoy being treated like pieces of meat...
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| Melodical | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 8:31 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:46 pm Posts: 880 Location: Newcastle | | Try "you make really confident eye contact" The girl will start doing it and eye contact creates attraction as unconsciously it triggers the relevant hardwired attraction circuits. Her unconscious is saying to itself: "I'm making lots of eye contact with this guy therefor I must be attracted to him"
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