Hi!

Ok quick help please.

I sent her this message before:

Me: Hi! Are you up to hanging out one of these days, like make some food?
She: Hellloo:) That would be nice! Then I dont hav eto stand the mess at my place;) (she is renovating)
Me: Great:). Yeah I can imagine it looks crazy at your place! Does tomorrow work? (misstake asking about a specific day)
She: Dusty as hell,bla blabla..Tomorrow Im going to a birthday party, so that going to be hard unfortunately:/
Me:Cousy! Ok nice:), we take another day then simply. How does your schedule look like?
She:Yeah:). I'm maybe going with a friend to work out on wednesday, but if not, then I can.

I really really didnt like her last message, maybe going with a friend?! What the fuck. How do I respond to that?

How does that even matter?


Just TELL her what, when, where. Stop being such an ass kisser.

Example "We are doing dinner at my place Wednesday, 6:00 be there!"

Her "I'm maybe going with a friend to work out on Wednesday, but if not, then I can."

You "Fuck it then, we'll do Friday, but it's your last chance!" "You won't be disappointed!'

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Thats really good shit! Thanks a lot. Fuck I need to get into this pua more.

Got a great response:

her: Haha..Oh yeah? Suprise?

You got another genius text:)?

Havent responded yet but i have something like this in mind:

Haha..you will have to wait and see

Nice.

And yes go with that.

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Ok now she flaked!

Sent her this message: Free to come over around 7!
She: Hi, I have gotten a contract tonight at 8 at a house:(, dont know unfortunately when I will be home. Shitty as hell but the house has been on the market for 2 years so really want to sell it;)

Ok this is not the first time she pulls this kind of bullshit since we broke up, so this is a lie. Another time she had a client she had to meet late and another time there was something else. What do I tell her?

I really feel like saying " Dont ever send me a message again". Seriously Im really tired of her now.

What do you people recommend?

Just don't say anything, don't text or whatever until she texts and shows interest. I guess next time she will be the one inviting you.

Thanks for answer. The thing is we broke up in august and she has sent me in average like two messages a week since then. She wants the attention and confirmation that Im there constantly. I know she hates feeling alone so..

But its kind of annoying for me, she keeps giving me "hope".

Freeze her ass out, or even NEXT!

Tell her to pick her fanny up and fuck off and not to trip over a nipple on her way out....

But hey that's me, I have this rare disorder called self-esteem and the side effects are not giving a fuck

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How long have you been single?

Clearly you have strong feelings but you need to face reality bro, if she wanted to see you she wouldn't be playing possum.

I also have an ex just like this (and they say women are different) who gets up to the exact antics. It's just validation you've summed it up.

You will need to decide to simply move on and see new women in your life get into the gym (she'll find out) or else keep trying her and have her disappoint you the whole time. At times try see things from a woman's perspective "Yeah he can't get enough of me he's gonna keep making appointments and I'm gonna keep canceling, the loser needs to get a grip'' (they can be a wicked bunch).

Ball is in your court.

Goodluck.

Ok she came over yesterday anyway! She denied me a kiss, even if I tried several times. So no action.

So I sent her this message this morning;

Hi, thanks for yesterday. Just want to say that I dont want any more contact for like a half a year. Its clear that you only want to be friends(because you are dating someone else/not intrested) and since I'm still intrested its a equation that dont work well. Maybe we can talk again to the summer or something;)

Her: Hi, thank you for yesterday. I absolutely understand your situation even if its a pity. We will do a break and talk further on in time, so I hope we can hang out then. Good luck with your last semester and merry christmas!:)
(Im swedish so translation is not perfectly accurate, for example the word pity is not really correct and also further on in time, but you get the picture)

So thats it, Im feeling pretty down and shitty now.

Any comments?

As a reply to the post above, I have been single for 4 months.

Be happy that you know where you stand now, and now you don't have any false hope anymore. Now improve yourself, read learn exercise, so when she sees you over half a year you will have changed so much she will feed down and like shit because she let you go. Understand? Don't contact and improve and have alot of fun. Also don't check her fb/insta/twitter or anything, remove all those. Very important, trust me.

Thanks a lot. Yeah I guess in a way it feels better now. Schould I remove her facebook?

I will definetly improve myself!

Block her facebook and all her friends, remove twitter and instagram.

I even had a friend do some coding so I couldn't access instagram on my computer sounds extreme but it's been two months now and I barely think about her. Best medicine.

Ughh...man this was sad. She dumped you in August...move on. Delete from everything, phone and social media. Meet other girls and improve yourself. Don't EVER plan to talk to her again. She is one woman, who left you already. Let it be. If in 6 months you even want to go out with her, you've done something wrong. You should be on the better women and a better life by then.