| So I've been chatting up this milf at the gym, HB9 and things have been going decent.. I started out negging and disqualifying, typical shit. then she started asking me questions, and eventually we started talking and building comfort.. Realizing that her "life had gone down the drain" because she got a DUI, she started just pouring out to me and of course i was eating that shit up.. While teasing her (hitting her in the leg with my gym bag, pushing her shoulder and looking the other direction.. basic kino). And of course talking about how she doesnt want to set a bad example for her kids.. Yes, her kids, and yes she is married to a guy who I happened to scarecrow by saying "Oh im sure your husband is a wonderful guy and hell help you through all this" and her response was something like, "no he's an asshole that only cares about money and the way people see us" ... now were getting somewhere
So i build my frame over the next few times I see her as the younger gentlemen at the gym who has alot of woman in his life, trouble maker (who also doesnt fit in a box), and strong minded well grounded individual with freedom to do whatever the fuck i want(sorry that just felt good typing)
So i see her again and she runs up to me and sais, sorry for "pouring all that out at you last time" i was like oh its cool im not the criminal going to jail"(keeping it playful) and build some kino escalate a little more and leave for the night, and end up seeing her at the market...
same shit, except this time i tell her that i have a problem with women because i have mommy issues (showing my weakness while still holding value) and shes like ahw blah blah, what happened i told her my mom left my dad and i because my dad is an asshole and would get mad at her for stupid shit like smoking cigarettes(i knew she smoked i could smell her car just a tad) and she gave me a huge grin and said i have to hide these from my husband too, pulled out a smoke.. chatted bit more and i teasingly left her in the parking lot ..
Finally today is the day, i knew i was gonna see her and i was like YO ITS TIME TO MAKE A REAL MOVE.. and shes in there and i saw her on a machine but i wasnt gonna approach until she was done because i dont wanna look like the guy gaming the girl on the fucking elliptical. and yes me ignoring her existence worked and she yelled across the gym floor "HEY CUTIE" but i just went boss mode gave her a grin and chucked up the deuces, did a quick ab circuit and came back to a bench and sat down putting my stuff back in my gym back and here she comes...
Typical banter, I played a quick game with her and made her laugh, feel stupid , grab my arm and she said "if I was 15 yrs younger" and i cut her off and said "you wouldnt have a chance with me" and she questioned it and i said "remember i like the girls that get me in trouble, so she starts qualifying herself.. blah. then i said, "i need a piece of gum and she is like alright, so i follow her to the womens locker room and she brought me back a jolly rancher instead, which i rejected idk why , but heres where i made the mistake
i asked her what she was up to and she kinda shrugged/smiled and said "well i kinda just have to go to the market real quick" and i simply was just like in my head screaming to myself this is your chance to take this outside of the gym and put in the real work. but i didn't... i simply just said have fun, now she has court in the morning for her dui and im already rationalizing it by saying how she is gonna realize she has a great family and doesnt wanna fuck it up.(especially with some guy who wont leave the gym with her) lmao!
Well thats it guys, sorry i suck. i guess the point of all this is WHEN YOU SEE AN OPPORTUNITY TAKE IT. i cant tell you how many times i have learned this with women.. and btw, im not done with her.. ill keep you posted.. honestly i might just go direct with her soon...
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