So this HB7 thought I was cute and contacted a few friends of mine to get my number and so I asked her out. We went out. I k closed several times. I heard from friends afterwards she was hugely interested and kept asking if I wanted a girlfriend. We set up a second date and everything was literally fine. Then last night I come home from an especially grueling night at work and find out my grandmothers dying plus my friend that died on Friday I can't go to her funeral because it's family only and right then when I'm just seething I get this text from her saying don't hate me but I need to cancel tomorrow and idk I just went off on her. I accused her of blowing me off and acted clingy. She asked if she could text me later and I let her go. Now I realize what an idiot I was and feel bad. Is there anyway to explain my situation?
I was thinking of waiting till Thursday if I don't hear anything and just saying "happy thanksgiving. Sorry for being annoying the other day I had just gotten really bad news and took it out on you. If you still wanna grab coffee id like to make it up to you" or something like that. Thoughts?

Oh and btw I already have another date with another chick but I just feel bad and I liked her a bit more.

Your text reply is great. There are no "PUA routines" in that text, you're just being human and apologizing for snapping at her. Give it a go.

OceanX makes a great point. You don't want to forget your humanity.

However, be a bit more terse and less generic. Split up your message into two texts:

1st text
"So glad it's turkey day, shit's been real lately."

2nd test
"I was a bitch to you. Let's go out for coffee on Friday."

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

^^^This guy kinows what hes talking about.

Just to add some generic stuff:
1. always keep convo with girls light, never snap at them no matter how pissed off you are. TRUST ME I snapped at tons of bitches before, don't help at all tho. What i do instead is go approach more girls, simple.
2. Keep at least 3-5 girls you are playing around with, that way when one pissed you off, you have another one. Messed up I know but thats what bitches get for flaking 99% of the time.
3. In general you dont wanna text or initiate too often. you will seem needy, this isnt just with girls, but with guys also. next time you have a guy friend acting needy, you wont wanna hang with him no more.