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Is it easier or harder to make a girl your girlfriend if you sleep with her on the first date
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TheFury
PostPosted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 5:24 pm 
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I am curious how many of you guys think that it is easier / harder / or the same to turn a girl you sleep with on the first date into a girlfriend versus if you sleep with her on later dates. Note, I am not asking if you WOULD date a girl who slept with you on a first date, just if you think you can convert them to girlfriend as easily, more easily, or harder than "normal" (if normal for your is not a first night lay)

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 6:20 pm 
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It's easier, the sex and intimacy release a lot of oxytocin which works as a bonding/connection hormone.
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It's easier, the sex and intimacy release a lot of oxytocin which works as a bonding/connection hormone.
Yes, I believe this to be the case as well, by far, yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.

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When a chick says "i wanna be swept of my feet" she basically means "I wanna be turned on real quick an have awesome sex ASAP"

There's almost no such thing as having sex too early. My last LTR I met briefly at the casino, swapped numbers, 2 hours later drive to her place, sex within 15 minutes. Dumped her 2 months ago she still calls me begging to come back.

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It's easier, the sex and intimacy release a lot of oxytocin which works as a bonding/connection hormone.
Yes, I believe this to be the case as well, by far, yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.
If you take it slow there is a good chance someone else is going to take it fast in the meantime and get her hormones pumping. It's not good for you and it's not good for the girl either.
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yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.
Because they were raised by their Mommies. And that is "The right way!"

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yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.
Because they were raised by their Mommies. And that is "The right way!"
Unfortunately the way I am raised and is still hardwired in me.

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It's not hardwired. Hardwiring is preset evolutionary heuristics. It's just a belief system. People usually give you your beliefs (like your mom) but if it's not working in the real world it's time to start believing something else.
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Yes but from my own experience it's not that easy to simply just change my beliefs, it takes quite some time.

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The bigger the emotional leverage the shorter the time. It's a self limiting belief someone else has given you: throw it in the bin where it belongs.
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