So as the title says, I met this german girl in the UK. she and I are class mates and frequently hangout in the same group. at first i got the vibe she was kinda ignoring me, but later down the road i discovered she was actually "scared" of me... let me explain why, well I am a "big" guy not fat but well built lets say. i have wide chest and just a very manly face, i always act alpha and everyone in the group have the idea "this guy is fun and interesting but not to be fucked with".

anyways, after me and her started chatting on facebook and she got to know me better she actually gave me her number so we can chat on SPAM... up till this point I am still not interested to be honest, anyways we started chatting a bit on the phone and later on we went out with a group of friends to a pub for drinks, i sat next to her and we chatted so I brought up the subject of her being scared, just in a playful way you know what i mean, so she said "no i'm not scared! but when i first saw you i thought "this guy is bossy i'm not gonna let him boss me around" so we laughed and I digged a little deeper, i told her "why the hell would I boss YOU around? we're still..." so she cut me off and said "yeah" and laughed... i took that as an indirect IOI.

later on that night I tested her, I dragged the conversation into the differences between what girls and boys like just so I can say "you know one of the most things I like in a girl is if she is tough, you know? like... one of the guys tough, likes beer and football kinda girl. hell my ex was like that" she replied "well, i'm here with the guys and i'm drinking beer too and i watch football" I took that as a huge IOI and second day she even asked me are you older than me?

and she escalated kino... she touched me too many times and actually pushed me. but i found out she is more a touchy girl, she touches everyone like that. my question is... I kinda like her, i'm not sure yet, what do you guys think? am I right by thinking she is really into me?

oh and i'm arabian, so I'm more of the "exotic" types in the UK

To me it sounds like it's all going well and it's at a particular stage of attraction, and you can keep moving forward to the next stage.

If you have to ask if you like her, I'd say that you do enough, and you're having a slight experience of a lack of confidence, and should just keep moving forward with her, on principal, to see what happens. The only reason not to is if you have some other girls around who you want to pursue further who would then lose interest seeing you get more interested with another girl.

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thanks for the quick reply.

well my question is should i really move forward and if so... what would you advice the next step to be?

i've had great experience with girls and quite good relationships, but it is my first time with a german girl, or more specifically a "western" girl so i'm still not yet calibrated enough. i'm just not in a position where i could afford screwing up our friendship and turning every hangout with the group into an awkward meeting. we are a huge group of friends and always hanging out together so she will be always there as will i.

many thanks in advance