Whatsup boys>? This is my first post! Yes bring on the salutes. I have a question for all you gurus out there. Last night I went out the hookah bar in my college town and went about working my game on a lot of the ladies there (girls gone wild was there last night). I approached a table of dudes with this hb10 (all looked like minors). I isolated the group into a two set which consisted of a guy and the target. Focusing on the guy mainly i opened with the "my roommates girl is always making out with every girl when we go out to the bars and i have to hear him constantly bitching about this, yall this this is wrong?" opener and got their responses. Then i isolated the hb10 and ran the cube exercise on her. She was so impressed she went on to telling her other friends at the table. I then put on the time constraint and proceeded to get her number.

I knew I was in when i said

"you are privileged to have this information"
hb: Thats normally my line

The thing is i was drunk and completely forgot her name.

So shes saved in my phone as Hot.

I recall her asking me if i was on facebook and i replied with the ya, but I'm never on that shit. She looked unhappy about that. So I'm trying to play the texting game to figure out her name.

My goal was to send the opener text that more then likely would get an easy reply

gotsthabeef: WOW.. I'm in shock!!

No reply though. My intension, when she replied, was to say I can't believe you haven't added me on facebook being the facebook addict you are. All this in attempt to get her name.

Ya she might not get text messages or for whatever reason doesn't want to reply to me.

Any suggestions fellas?

Welcome in Gotsthebeef! Your story seems interesting and it appears as if you ran some solid game on her. Good work.

I have had this problem before also. . . you build attraction and number close, but the girl doesn't return a text or a phone-call. In reality, this is completely normal. Some women are flaky; they don't call or text back because there wasn't enough comfort. Not your fault, you probably just didn't have enough time to work with her.

I would recommend calling her, rather than texting. Chances are, she will not pick up the phone, so you will have to leave her a clever message about the other night. (***BE ALERT! Listen out for her name on the voice message). Then perhaps you could use something like this:

"Hey XXX its "Gotsthebeef". (laughing) You know, that incredibly smart, charming, and handsome guy from XXX. Kidding. But seriously, I don't normally call people I meet at the bars, but I thought you might be cool enough so I figured why not give it a shot? It's actually kind of surprising that I'm calling though because I thought you would've added me on Facebook by now, being the addict that you are and all. Anyway, you can reach me at XXX-XXXX and we can stay in touch."

I know its not much, but its something.

The trick is to leave a relatively longer message so she can familiarize herself to your voice. Maybe she can recall the emotions that she felt when you we're gaming her and it might be enough to get a call back. Then once she calls you back, keep her on the phone a little bit "just to talk". Finally, invite her out to something that you'll already be doing. Here's a money line that I read somewhere on this forum. "So I gotta go buy a present for my 13 year old sister, why don't come and tag along?"

I hope this helps. . .Good luck and keep us updated!

- Jay Wa

Hey man welcome to us both, I'm also a newb in the forum. Here's a little trick to make sure communication is topnotch. these days we depend on cellphones that don't always work properly and there a great excuse to use when you don't want to pick up and not feel guilty. All you have to say is that you did not receive the call or message. BUT there is a little trick, when sending a text message, re-send it immediately a minute or so after. That way it will come in twice and say message duplicate. You wont look like the psycho sender and you have twice the probabilities of her receiving your message. Also leave voice mails, those don't lie, and even if she does not hear it soon after you left it, it will be there until she either erases it or listens to it. About her name, give her a nick name in the meanwhile, like freckles, tiny, something cute (complementing her in a condescending way) don't use baby, babe, nothing sexiest, that would kill you if she's a hard to the core feminist.

I hope this helps a bit mate.

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Shiny things make me smile, like boobies full of baby oil.

now we need to help gotsthabeef..to find the answer to his problem he had me text the girl to see if she even had text messaging..she replied within 3 minutes..how can we help him fix the situation?

Chinese proverb: Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet.
I need more information to make a responsible suggestion.
I could damage the situation more if i suggest irresponsibly.

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I have loved every women in my life. Even if it lasted a minute.

Shiny things make me smile, like boobies full of baby oil.

But take your time mate, dont push it because i think the ball is in her court all you can do is try again in a few days by calling and if she does not pick up, well leave a voice mail. If after that there is no response. Dont sweat it, just go out to the feild and play the game again. Remember, your the player, they are the game. have fun in the meanwhile.

Beside mate, you sound like you have done your home work, you have a solid game.

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I have loved every women in my life. Even if it lasted a minute.

Shiny things make me smile, like boobies full of baby oil.

appreciate isale. Sounds like you do sale. haha.. Welcome to lounge man. Ya I already have my own type of game but reading and practicing other types and shit while I'm at it get my pimp hand strong..hah metaphorically.

So I figured out a pretty easy way to see if a chick receives texts or not. Get a buddy to text pretending shes a friend of her. Be like

"Hey girl! This is Jessica heres my new number."

IF you get a response.. well hey. Shes not answering your texts. I decided to delete her number and not waste time on this. Back to the field I go. =]

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Texas boy!

Ill keep that trick in hand.

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I have loved every women in my life. Even if it lasted a minute.

Shiny things make me smile, like boobies full of baby oil.