Hey guys ,

This might be a long-ish post , but bear with me , I need some help.My best friend recommanded this site , so here goes.


So I'm a 20 yo college student from east europe. Just so I make it clear now , colleges here are more conservative than you'd imagine. Also , my major is Computer Science , so good fucking luck finding a half decent looking girl.But anyway , moving on.


Up until now I've had like 7-8 real girlfriends. Longest relationship was almost 3 years which ended this January or so.The rest were somewhere between 2 weeks and 6 months.



Anyway,my main problem is that my glory days were my highschool days. Now , most of my social group is consisted out of stereotypical computer science students. I actually think most of them are virgins , and some never even had a girlfriend(confirmed by them).



So yea ,every social gathering is pretty much a sausage fest.And I'm not trying to be a dick but these guys aren't really the life of the party. It seriously is not easy to pull girls while out with them.The only guy that comes close to being a cool dude is my roommate , who is in a "serious" relationship , so he's as socially boring as you would expect a men in his position to be.



My real best friends & bros live on different corners of europe right now due to their own college education. We only get together a few times a year and everytime that happens I realize how much my life sucks compared to what it was.I miss having friends like that.



Point is , in the past girls were always kinda present. I mean , they were there. All you had to do was put your skills to work. But now I feel like I'm socially retarded. I literally do not know any HB's , and I'm a college student. I cannot afford to go clubbing or whatever on a regular basis and just attempt ONS's.



Other than that I regard myself as a good looking guy , I tend to lead , I constantly work on myself and I feel all that keeps me well above average , and yet here I am , surrounded by sausages every which way.


I haven't had sex since...february. Isn't that that only supposed to happen when you're married ? Hahah.

But seriously though , I need to break this cycle. I feel like I'm stuck and I have very little control over it.


Literally any advice is appreciated.Sorry for the long ass post , but I'm aware that the quality of any advice is only as good as the info it's based on.


Peace.

Increase your social value: sports, frat, bartender, event organizer, DJ, band, rapper, break dancer, author etc.

Hit on more girls away from your low social value friends.

Spend less time hanging out with the CS dudes at parties etc. You don't need to be with a crowd or in a certain venue to approach girls. Approach girls wherever you are - look around, they are literally everywhere. This can get your sexlife back on track fast.

Is your best friend Paramount by any chance?

Where abouts in Eastern Europe are you eZion? I've been to quite a few universities in a number of different countries over that way visiting friends or doing presentations. Slightly different vibes and feels to all of them (so different socialisation required), Europe is, after all, quite a big and varied place!

it deppends. when i was in university it was mainly about studying. they tried organising parties, but so what. it was good for a while. university is mostly about studying. you may meet some friends but they are also obsessed about studying. and after university everyone just travels to different places, countries to work. university tries to be a good place for socialising but it's main function is education. usually people just make friends with a few people in university and do everything together while they are studying there. like they go to countries together for vocation etc. people do not have time for anyone else.
when i was in university i did not find it all that sociolising. it was mostly about studying.

My thoughts exactly, I thought "not another bloody post about college from that bellend" lololol

Anyway in response to the OP, you need to step outside your comfort zone and stop blaming your situation on your social circle. It's not them, it's you. Go and find where the party's at and go from there. Daygame by yourself. The possibilities are endless.