i am an exclusive cold approach gamer,i dont rarely social game because i feel it could lead to drama and such stuff but recent events may change my mind..i recently gamed a chick in my university..she was a 7 maybe 7.5..she sounded uninterested and even told me that she already met her dream guy so i just stopped communicating to her..days later a high school mate of mine visited the same university..now he came to visit another chick who was friends with the 7.5 HB ...now the friend of the HB 7.5 was really interested in my friend...after he left the HB 7.5 started hitting on my friend...she got his number from the other chick and asked him whether he was single...and he told me she texts him daily and calls him daily(of which she doesnt do to me..infact i initiate most texts)...so i think she hit on him and gave me the cold shoulder because she just saw him with another chick and which brings me to another question,is cold approaching worth it? guys with social proof get approached even by girls but the same is not true for cold approach guys....i think the community should just preach social circle game...i have had a few lays from day game and facebook and i am sure i get more lays than my friend who got hit on by the HB 7.5 but just because another chick was interested in him he gets hit on and in my opinion that is why social circle game ranks better than cold approaching....what are your opinions?

There is a million reasons why she could be attracted to him and not you: you remind her of her abusive ex, he is her type, she liked his style, shoes, shirt, personality etc.... Social proof makes your job easier, naturally, but it's your personality that wins them over in the end. So yes, cold approach is totally worth it.

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Well, cold approaching and opening are my Achilles heel. Also, I have no patience whatsoever to clubs and discos, get cranky if I go to bed after 1AM and totally refuse to dance.

So I pretty much daygame on girls I meet at work (or through work), at the gym, office building restaurant and social circle game at dinners, bar meets and group hangouts.

I also have busted out of the friendzone a few times before.

So for me social circle game is undoubtedly the way to go.

This is not an opinion. It's an infield sarging fact.

You can use both cold approach and social circle game. One complements the other. The girls you've sarged via social circle game are great for social proof when cold approaching. On the other hand, when girls in your social circle see you cold approaching hot girls, you get massive DHV and your social circle game girls tend to want you more.

Propinquity (social circle game) is proven to work for a reason and gets you laid a lot. Meanwhile, novelty (cold approach) gets you those single day lays no matter how rare.

It's like in the mixed martial arts. If you can punch, kick, use your elbows and knees, takedown your opponent, and ground and pound, then you're good. If you can only punch, you'll get beaten every time.

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Precisely. As I said, I suck at cold approaches, and quite honestly havn't felt the need to train it. That being said, having the balls to cold approach and above all getting a positive response gets you massive social proof if the girls you are social gaming see you do it. I have two great exemples:

Even before I got into PUA I was chasing this girl from my college. When I was hired to work security at a gig from a band she liked, I offered to get her into the VIP area. Wheile we were there (I was on crowd control at the entrance, she was some 6 meters away sitting at a sofa) a very hot HB bumped into me (literally) she giggled and put her hand on my chest as she apolegised. I glanced back and noticed my guest was looking. I took the chance to chat up the HB, asked if she was liking the show, etc, leaning in to speak at her ear and placing my hand on her arm. She asked for the toilet, I directed her there. In all, we spoke for about a minute, and in the end I had the bright idea of taking out my cell phone wheile talking to her and pretend to take her number. A few minutes later my guest walked up to me and asked if that girl had just given me her phone number. I said yes and she said "I thaught you liked me". I said "I never hid that, and gave you plenty of time to reciprocate. Did you expect me to wait forever?". And that is how I got one of my first girls.

Another time (recently) I was walking down a shoping street with two female friends of mine, when we crossed paths with an HB trying to light a cigarette. I said "Go ahead, I'll catch up", turned on my heels, took 2 or 3 quick strides to catch up with the the HB and wipped out my lighter. Lit her cigarette, made a quick joke, she complemented my lighter (a vintage Dunhill) and that was it. My friends called me a player and the next weekend one of them asked me to hang out, after having previously flaked.

80% of my lays, ever, have been cold approaches, that said I've been in groups where I've had high social proof and was literally fending off advances.

For me though I like separating sex from friends, interweaving the two just too much fucking politics and i couldn't be bothered with that shit. I been mastering cold approaches for years and go so good i dont need social proif or a large circle if friends to get laid, and separating sex from friends much much fewing headaches.

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examples for cold approach???