So my friend met this girl that is a real solid 9. They started texting one another and she's very romantic to him without even knowing one another. He introduced me to her and I was stunned. Her beauty is off the hook. Not only that she's a solid 9 but she's also a varsity volleyball player in our University. Now here comes the tricky part. My friend always shows me their texts and its really really romantic and sweet but in real life, they are shy to one another. I don't see much IOIs given from either of them. Now on the other hand, i started talking to her and we actually made a real connection.

We started teasing one another, she pulled some tests and i passed em with flying colors that made her tease me alot more. We are totally comfortable with one another to the point that i could touch her hair and take a sip on her drink. Now, whenever the three of us are together, I can feel the great connection between me and her and my friend just sits there bored like fuck. Now I don't really get this girl. She gives me IOIs but texts romantically with my friend and possibly want a relationship with him. I really don't get it. Should I escalate? What would you do?

Hey man, I will tell you a story that I went through and you can draw your own conclusions... I introduced a friend of mine to a chick from my social circle and he started dating her... didn't make it to f-close but took her on a weekend out of town and invested some time and money in the relationship (AFC stuff if you ask me)... about one month after they stopped seeing each other, I ran into the chick at the club one night and one thing led to another, we spent the night together and started a relationship afterwards...when I told my friend, he totally psyched to the point of not returning my calls or texts... five months later, I broke up with the chick and I have lost a very good friend...

Are you ready to lose your friend for this girl? If yes, go ahead and escalate with this girl... If not, forget about it...

Talk to your friend and explain the situation.

If your friend is anything like me, you'll probably end up making some sort of gentleman's arrangement of whoever gets her first keeps her, and the other steps out of the way and buys a bottle of wyskey to the winner.

If your friend is hellbent in getting her, give him a hand. Bros before hoes!

If things do not work out between them or your friend steps down, go for it.

Il-Cavalieri has it right. Talk to the guy.

I'm really hot on 'Trivia Chick' here at a local bar, but realize I'm doomed with her. No future. Buddy I go with to trivia asked me if he could give it a go. Sure I said. I have not gained anything and no loss to me as it sits.

See, he asked. I said cool. Done and done. Now if he f-closes, sweet! Tell me how you got there chief (I wanna learn). BUT, if I was really trying for this chick and had a real chance and he sidelined me, well then that would not be cool. Broke the Bro-Code bruh

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Thanks for the solid advice bros. I shall never forget the golden rule: Bros before hoes I'm gonna have a talk with my friend