so tomorrow I have arrangements to meet up with my friend, his girl, and her friend. I started playing words with friends with this girl as suggested by my friends girlfriend. she posted something relating to her friend on her fb. I then thought to see what this broad was all about. turns out we are both tattooed by the same artist, and we like the same music. I wasn't too sure how to go about meeting her, and then I saw her at a bar. so I later messaged her asking if she was there. that was about a month ago. anyway I then told my friend to get us to discreetly end up in the same place. I am the kind of guy that girls approach, but I was chatting with her last night through the game, and she said don't you think we play this too much. I responded with I really only play with you, and that's because I think you're cute. she said that was flattering and we spoke as if it were nothing. by the way my friend wasn't discreet, and she agreed. I know that she is really shy. how should I play this out?

What I'm really wanting to know is what I should do since I told her I think she's cute. I'm thinking about playing it çool and after awhile acting like she spit on me to open it up. I just don't want to come in all flirty

You think she is cute and you told her so, so what? Stick to your guns, never apologise for anything like that or get weird about it. A girl recently told me she thought I was a bit eager or coming on too strong, so I told her that I think she's really fucking hot and I'm not interested in just being friends with her and that she would have to deal with it. EDIT: I also told her that if she doesn't like the way I am then don't see me again, simple solution. I made it clear I am unafraid of losing her.

But I guess it depends on your frame and natural demeanor, since my ex left me I have stopped giving two solitary shits what a girl thinks and will not alter my behaviour and I am open and honest and my success has skyrocketed. The girl who thought I was over eager still texts me every single day and wants to meet up again soon.

Obviously don't be a creep, but don't overthink either. Be natural, fun and interesting and don't be afraid to physically escalate.