I just met this girl about three weeks ago and a few things happened and I could tell she was drifting away. I haven't had sex with but I've made out with her multiple times and maybe she's just a real jealous person but ANYWAY, I had a girl text me while I was hangin out with her and the text said "what's up" and she got pretty frustrated about that, then we went to the club later that night and I saw a girl who I hadn't seen in a long time who I used to be friends with and we started dancing on eachother. Of course this girl saw and ignored me after that. I still went home with her and her friend and my friend winged her friend.. But you could tell she wasn't interested for the rest of the night and next morning.

Is dancing on other girls in front of your girl really a big deal, and shouldn't other girls texting you be a good thing? I could understand if I was dating her but we've only been talking for three weeks, not that serious and I'm pretty sure she's done. Not asking how to get her back I want to know opinions on those questions thx

Have sex with her first to solidify a connection with her. She is probably still attracted to you because you can get other women. That will keep her coming back unless she finds someone else.

BeardlessSanta,

don't worry about it. You showed solid DHV. You are what she wants. Now just continue some DHV, be the fun guy that she wants and close the deal. Her getting upset is what gets called on here so lovingly "a shit test". She wants to see if you stop and be soft like all the other little beta animals out there. You are right on track, just don't soften now and be the Alpha she needs.

Sarge On,

Invictus85

Dear Beardless,

I'm super impressed that you're more interested in improving your game than in how to get this particular girl back. That attitude will make you a rockstar with women faster than anything else.

Your goal should have been to sleep with her as soon as possible. You had lots of attraction, but acting like a playboy in front of her killed any comfort she had with you. You may still be able to save it, but it sounds like you're in recovery mode with her. Next time, get to the F Close as soon as you can and then you will have more flexibility in how you want to take things from there.

Thanks, I see where y'all are coming from but I think the fact that I danced with another girl may have actually been a bit much because she ended things with me. So maybe there's a point where you can have too much DHV, aka they think you're a man whore.. Anyway, moving along.