hi friends,

I know this girl for some months, we have been sleeping together for a couple of months, but she is in a long distance relationship, already 5 years, they don't see each other so often. I got used to her and developed feelings towards her, I like sex with her and also her company.
I talked to her about it, but she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend, she told me some lame excuses that his parents have her as their daughter, etc. so I didn't do this discussion again. We spent some time together, also did some short excursions, which were much fun, but I am still feeling alone.
You have any suggestions for my situation? I did some boyfriend destroyer patterns but breaking up is different that just having sex :/
I don't rush things, I let the time show, don't want to push her.

Run, run like the wind.

Your nothing more than a dildo to her. If you can live with that, then fine.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

thought about it is there any way to change this?

What are you trying to get out of it?

You have already invested more than her, she holds power over you.

Pussy Power
The vaginal control of a woman over a man AFTER he has hit it and not before. Because EVERY man is stupid before he starts fucking. Thus, any woman who can keep him stupid after he fucks possesses Power of the Pussy.

Deny her.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I like having sex with her, I also enjoy spending time with her. Guess I would like her to be mine, but I think you are right, she has pussy power on me, I thought about dumping her after banging her so many times and she is still with her bf, but somehow everytime I fuck her I want her more...

dump her? Bro sorry to break your heart but she is not yours to dump!

flip the script as they say! Get HER all worked up and wanting you.

Then deny. I know it sounds shitty, but don't even think for a second she would not do that to you!

She is not the only woman on the planet, go out there and see that I am right!

trust me you fuck the next one, and you will want more from her as well.

Hell maybe even more so!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Why would you want to date a girl who cheats on her boyfriend. She is not the best girl, if you want to keep sleeping with her that your choice but be a real and realize thats all this should be.

Op read your original post. The only way you feel anything for her is because your having sex with her think without your dick. This chick has been with a dude for 5 years and doesn't care at all that shes constantly having sex with you and feels no guilt towards it, do you really want to be with a girl like that? There's no way you'd ever trust her. If you were in more control of your feelings I'd tell you to keep banging her while pulling other girls but you cant do that. You need to break it off before you get hurt and I promise you if you don't you will get hurt because she feels nothing towards you.

Thank you for your advise friends Truth is that my best friend moved to another city and don't have anyone to spend some time together, that's why I feel lonely, plus the winter is starting.
I knew that it is wrong to develop feelings for her, I will try to deny her, and have my eyes open for other girls.

Don't just "try" to, you have to cut her out. Do whatever it takes. Delete/block her number, move forward from now. If you put yourself out there, there is no reason why you wouldn't be able to find someone descent - unless you are the type of guy who likes only what he can't have...

This.

She has twisted mind. Find girl that is not preconditioned to do this shit.

Not to pile on, but this.

thank you guys for your replies you helped me realize the situation I am in

This is an easy one....

Start ignoring her a bit more, and sleep with her a bit less, make it on your terms. Start seeing another girl. Go round and say you dont think you can see her so much as you are seeing someone else. Then fuck her because YOU are horny.

Then start laying off her a bit, and make her beg for your cock.

I see her a couple times per week, didn't think this was so much, but I write her every day. Yeah, I know I need to find other girls.