idk if anybody ever did this but ill like to share some information i learned from experience.

1. Don't ever tell a girl you are a nice guy or a gentleman. girls will always claim they want whats best for them but will subconsciously seek the exact opposite with intentions of changing them into whats best for them. Plus most guys who claim to be the nice guy (myself included once ago) are TOOO nice. most girls idea of a nice guy is a "boy" who can't stand up for himself, use compliments to get attention, has no confidence and are weak. now is that true most of the time ummmm NO but alot of times it is so its bets to not even say you're a nice guy and if a girl calls you a nice guy, you don't have to be an asshole but atleast get more of a backbone....to many guys think compliments and being nice will get them girls thats not necessarily true

2 don't EVER say you're a gentleman if all you are is a nice guy with etiquette. Robert S. Surtees said it best "The man who is always talking about being a gentleman, never is one"(ironic cause my name is southern gentleman lol) a true gentleman is humble yet confident, assertive, yet polite, and basically an asshole but charming. that's why women want them, but alot of "nice guys" classify themselves as gentlemen when infact they're just guys who are too nice. i saw a post on instagram saying girls basically want a gentleman thug " a guy who will open a door for you but also fight and take up for you" and im here thinking gentlemen are suppose to fight for what they love, how did they get this rep of being weak? then it hit me

3 Compliments: most (not all) nice guys think phsyical compliments will get them sex, but gentlemen are taught that compliments or praising anything is a good thing but physical compliments are stupid. Every compliment is suppose to be earned and if you're not doing something a gentleman will tell you. thats why a compliment from a gentleman is more satisfying. put it like this. most charismatic people are refered to as gentlemen right? and most charismatic people are also PUA right? a simple compliment like "i like your dress' or "that color looks amazing on you" will do way better than a generic 'you're gorgeous"....last week i told this mean ass lady her eye shadow looked amazing on her....she not only smiled and changed her mood completely but she let me get my refund check without my student ID (which is bad lol)

but hey this whole topic might be stupid but im pretty sure this is good information, what do you guys think?..

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Calling yourself a gent is low value imo. It is like bragging about how good you are.

yea i included that in the statement......i put that as my username because its what alot of people know me by, its y youtube username also lol

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

I disagree, you shouldn't not call yourself a nice guy or gentleman because it may make you seem weak.

If you're a gentleman say so, if you're a nice person say so. Your personality, body language , and actions are what will be saying "I'm a gentleman, and I know that I can rock your world" or you can say you're a nice guy and after she walks by you smack her ass and playfully say "I never said I don't have a bad side "

I agree about compliments, but they should have meaning behind them. I've been told repeatedly I give great compliments but that's because they are genuine, they don't have to be earned they're just your authentic opinion.

nicely put.

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

You guys seem to forget that calling yourself a Gentleman can work for you perfectly well.
The definition that you used earlier is that a gentleman is basically a charming asshole. That is the point.

If you say,"I'm a perfect gentleman" after you just sexually flirted with her or have some high sexual tension with her where she knows that you are far from a nice guy or what most people would call a gentleman, you will be the charming asshole. It is good to be the charming asshole. James Bond is the charming asshole. Always be James Bond.

Sarge On,

Invictus85

i know lol thats what im saying....BUT alot of overly nice guys claim to be gentlemen lol

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie