Haha I'll have to ask her.

Here's an update I found a little black kitten at the end of my driveway this morning. So here's my plan.
Me: Hey YOU guess whatt!!

Her: what?

Me: I rescued a little kitten this morning. I'm a manly man lol. (Every girl likes little kittens)

Then just go from there. As always any advice is appreciated thanks!!

Dude I don't mean to offend you. But you text like a girl. Why don't you just get to the point arrange the meeting and then stop texting and deal with other girls.
I would hate to see you over texting and the girl loses all interest and puts you into the friendzone straight away.

Here's an update for anyone who's interested I used the kitten opener it worked well

Me: Hey YOU guess what!!
Her: What?
Me: I rescued a little kitten. I'm a manly man lol.
Her: That is manly!!

Bit more about pets/animals

I teased her a bit about her conference she was speaking at she gave it back to me
Than from there we mainly just had an intelligent convo it was going well, but kind of on the down side, so I ended it on a good note. In the next day or 2 I'm gonna see about setting up a date. Didn't figure I should do it right away that would be a bit needy.

No worries mate. I actually had a date set up with her last week, but she had to reschedule because of last min change in work. I just talked to her again tonight, and was gonna set something up, but I thought that might be bit needy. Tmrw or the next day I'm gonna set something up with her. My opener wasn't the greatest, but it got her attention and she liked it so next time I use something a little edgier.

100%.

I think text game is a false prophet. It looks like it does something but reality is it CANT help your game. She likes you purely based on her real life experiences with you and that will morph her perception of each individual text message.

Text from coolest guy in the world: hey, hows it going?
Text from regular guy: hey, hows it going?

Personally I arrange logistics for a meetup and completely leave it until I have to see her. Because the attraction is already there so theres no need to text (even if it did something of value). I take it a step further and shut my mouth after arrangements are made because there is that small chance I might say something she won't like. I keep texting minimal and rely on good game IRL.

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I agree my thinking was I hadn't talked to her since thursday get a convo going set up a date tmrw or the next day. We had a good convo I haven't been making myself too avaible. Keep in mind these convos have been spread out over the course of about 2 1/2 weeks. I met her briefly got her #, so from there I've been trying to create good rapport with her which I did. Tomorrow I'm gonna talk to her Hey I've got wednesday night how about you and I grab a drink at such and such place?

That's my plan. I figured tonight I talk to her small convo then ask her out the next time, just because imo it looks kinda needy asking her out again too fast.

Here's another update. I was busy yesterday and couldn't talk to her. Last time we had a good convo so tonight I just thought straight to the point with confidence, so I don't end up friend zoning myself. There's attraction there on both sides I've built good rapport with her so imo it was time to act. Here's how it went.


Me: Hey. Friday night 8:30-9 such and such place?
Her: um is 9:30 ok? I'm at whatever until 8:30
Me: sounds good.

THIS IS HOW IT'S DONE!! To the point, no games, no tricks, she knows what's up, why hide it.

I haven't used any games or routines on this girl. Our convos have been a mix of intelligent,flirting,teasing. The last time I asked her out I was straight to the point as well, but she ended up having to reschedule. When I talked to her on monday it had been about 4 days since I had talked to her, so my thought was monday have a good convo to open back up then wednesday set up a date for friday without any small talk or banter, because there's really no need for it now.

hey guys here's an update. I sent her a txt earlier today saying Hey I'm soooo excited for our date tonight its all I've been able to think about all day!!!!! She didn't reply....... Just kidding I really didn't do that. I'm just leaving to meet up with her now she txtd me earlier to make sure we were still on for tonight. We're going to a cool classy place solid date location. I'll see how that goes if it goes well I might pull one out of left field and take her salsa dancing or something. Anyway I'm cool confident and I'm gonna rock this!! I'll post an update tmrw thanx for all the help on this thread muchly appreciated!!

here's an update. Date was solid we met at the place I had planned had drinks appetizers. Everything was solid I was a little nervous at 1st this girl is a total KO, but I got myself in check we had really solid convo the whole time I had her laughing a lot. I told some funny/embarrassing stories that got her to open up even more. We some more serious convo too. I was gonna bounce from there to the salsa bar, but we were both so into it that we lost track of time and there wasn't time to go to the other bar before closing time. We were having such good convo that there was no need for routines or anything I caught a few body language mistakes I was making and fixed that. One thing I tried was a routine I read about live in the moment flirt with the future we were talking about pets I got onto horses. I was like have you ever been horseback riding she's like once along time ago. I was like well next time we hang out I'll take you horseback riding. She's like sure!! I'd love to ride a trail in the winter with snow on the trees!! I just left it at that show confidence that there will be a 2nd date and not look needy by trying to push it and get confirmation then and there. I picked up the tab like it was nothing. Then this is where I fcked up we walked to car talked a bit hugged, but I didn't go for the kiss I was going to, but I had a major gut feeling telling me no!! I'm kicking myself for that, but what can you do I personally give myself 8 out of 10 one point off for being a bit nervous at the start one point off for no kiss other than that I'd say it went well. I like this girl I want it to work out. A mistake I made when 1st started dating was the next day I'd msg the girl and say hey I had a good time last night. Newbie mistake I know. I'm just gonna wait let her msg me, and go from there I have a boxing banquet coming up in a cpl weeks suit and tie deal I'd like to bring her. All in all it went well. There's room for improvment, but 1st date both a little nervous next one will be better, and I'll definitely go for the kiss next time. Anyway that's how it went. Like I said definitely room for improvement, but all in all it was a good night we both had a good time I am confident there will be a 2nd date.

hey guys here's another update for anyone that's interested. She texted me about noon.
Her: thanks again for dinner last night I had a great time
Me: hey no worries. glad you had a good time.

I replied to her a couple hrs later because I was at work and couldn't talk I was thinking about asking her if she wanted to do something again tonight, but it went well last night and I don't wanna push it too hard plus I have other plans tonight. So I figure I'll talk to her monday and invite her to the banquet I have coming up.
As always any advice is appreciated thanks!!