Good afternoon PUAS of the world and thanks for reading my post.





A lot is available to read in the forum about this issue, but overnegging is one of my main sticking points. I usually abuse it even with strangers, not that i want to seem arrogant.... but its just what happens





My question for the more experienced ones is : how to fight or deal with it ? Obviously at some point you neeed to balance the "equation" and pass a little bittle of confidence to the HB so she can feel confortable and approved, enjoying to be with and near you. A compliment maybe..... are there ways to Balace it ?





As usual opinions are very welcomed .

Hey, man, there go my two cents...

1. You should only neg when the target is being bitchy about talking to you: ignoring you, turning to her friends while you are talking, making rude comments, you know the type of girls that think they are more "valuable" than you are... A girl that is friendly and open should never be negged.

2. You should neg until you notice a change of attitude, and not push it too far, as your target will believe that this is the real you. Who would want to spend an evening with a guy that's lowering her self esteem little by little? So when the ice princess has thawed, STOP NEGGING!

3. Balance negs with compliments: "you're such a dork... in an adorable way" or "weren't you wearing that dress last time you were here? It's nice, anyway..."

Good luck!

Hey Redlight, and thanks for such a good feedback on the situation.





I totally understand my mistake of falling into the tempation of negging friendly girls.... also is there any place where i can find or learn some good light compliments ? (I think i tend to make too big compliments whenever i go for them........and those you mentioned are superb)





Just trying to improve.....





Any sugestions are very welcomed guys !

I think we tend to overnegging when we're in a "negging momentum", i think its kinda fun,
or when we're nervous, run out of things to say and we neg to continue the convo.
Just my opinion.

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The best way to solve this issue is to just not neg. I never neg; because I really don't understand why I should. Negs are for guys that don't have presence and don't feel valuable enough to be talking to the girl they are after. I'm really nice too girls, but also really sexual. Which is key.. If you know how to use your sexuality and have high self-esteem all of these corny "pus rules" go out the window.

I'd say learn to fish, instead of taking these easy way out.

Negs are for nerds(or former nerds)

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Hey man,

I would go back to the basics, get your hands on a copy of Mystery's "The Mystery Method" and "Revelations" and Love System's routines... they contain a wealth of information...

Enjoy!

I always take it too far with chicks but 'pull' them back in with some tenderness and rapport building.

Hence the sacred equation. Push + Pull.

You need the dichotomy otherwise you will become a complete dick. If you are a complete dick, sincerely say, "...but yeh, I actually like talking to you" or "... just kidding, I really think your awesome"

-goundy

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