I have one itis over this HB10 I was dating, she was honestly the best one as far as LTR potential. In fact the only girl out of the ones I've been with with LTR potential.

But it's over and I keep finding myself hoping we still have a chance. I've tried sarging other girls, but in the end i stop after I compare then to the HB.

The one exception is a friend of mine I used to have a crush on in my AFC days. She knows I used to like her and is in fact helping me get over my "breakup". we're kinda flirty and I think part of the reason my feelings for her are coming back because she is the only girl that doesn't loose when I compare her the HB.

Any advice on how I should proceed.

My biggest concern is should I tell her about how she's the only that makes me feel better?

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You probably shouldnt tell her that. It comes off as desperate and needy like most AFC's would be after a breakup.

I okay. I think you're right. I won't tell her.

I feel unlucky that the only way to get out of my one itis is a friend. Now I might have to deal with getting out of the friendzone. anyone ever been in this situation before?

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Do u lean towards N.L.P in your seduction?
I'd suggest a simple parts integration, and metalevel reframe to begin and see how u feel about her after that.

Also, have u ever really liked a girl and then found out that her breath smelt like dogshit? Well, it works for me but before you go inside to make those connections, or some that are even more particular to you, now im gonna point out that you're the one who is in control of your own brain

Peace