Ok so I'll keep it pretty simple. Go on a date with a chick i met prior and the first problem hits us as we enter the bar (It's sports night) so it's noisy as hell and some announcer is talking also.

We go outside (it's freezing) but try chat anyways. 2nd issue we sit face to face so no chance of kino. We chat for a little but the conversation doesn't flow which is weird. With most women i can talk and simply follow the 20/80 rule but she seemed very shy and there was a couple awkward silences.

Noise indoors stops we go indoors and chat a little more and chat flows better but i notice she has her arms crossed...at this point I'm like she must be having fun so i just say shall we go I've got class in the morning. We walk back to our cross roads (no hand holding) and hug and say bye. Bored i say shall we hang out again she says "maybe i'll see".

I know i shouldn't be too bothered and I'm not primarily about her but I'm more confused as to why the date went bad. I've never had any issues with kino or anything but she just didn't seem receptive. Anyways i might text her in a few days and try date 2 just because i want to try work on areas i think i could have improved on (kino, escalation which i didn't even start doing because of the seating arrangements)

Anyone ever had the same problem as this. Could it just be her or did i fuck up somewhere along the road.

Nothing to get too concerned about I don't think. The only thing I would work on is venue selection. The girl was having an off day it seems. Try for date 2.