so I've been dating a purely hopeless romantic for a few weeks.4 meetings (few at night, few in day) Usually i f close by date 4 at most! This girl is a bit of a bitch, like she has a point to prove to the world. Both her x's were not trust worthy blokes. the first (who she adored) would cheat and she was never romantic. This would have made her insecure! the second was always romantic with her but her mentality and emotional values/experiences made her change.
So here i am dating this girl (She is really hot hb 9). She mentioned how shes not too affectionate but i know thats shit. Deep down she is its just her first boyfriend fucked her up. I think this chick is so uptight that she needs a good BANG! i can tell its been a while for her. Although shes fine,playful and good with me, she just doesn't show any affection. That annoys me because i am a playfull, flirty and to some extent affectionate guy. i've kissed and pashed her but i dont feel any passion. Deep down shes a top chick and ive experienced a bit of that but her insecurities must be making her love life and life a misery.

What should i do in regards to getting her in a vulnerable situation where i can just bang her brains out or at least try! Should i say something like lets get a hotel in the city this weekend or Should i get her alone and just talk about sex. This chick confuses me haha what do you guys think?

Reason why i ask is because i dont have any experience with this type of girl. Most of the others were easy going and easy to get into!

being seductive is not about the place nor what you say its about how you say it and the body language you show....a simple whisper in her ear with a deeper voice can work wonders.....in the movie don juan johnny depp talked about how soft and orgasmic his touch was....i saw the movie and tried it and a soft touch anywhere can work wonders lol i touched this girl on her arms and she started striping me down iif yall kiss alot gently kiss her from her mouth to her neck (WATERWORKS).....and if you think its really the insecurities then make her really feel special, give her random flowers/love poems and all that romantic bs, make her open up.....cause it seems like she has her guard up

hope that helped

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie