Pretty good sugestions

With me it is all about staying within the pivot of convo so making sure you are not left out; if the convo is really dead you can just form your own little group within the group; but make sure the convo is buzzing and excited and it seems you are having fun and people will want to join!

If worst comes to worst just say you are going to get something for a min or two, don't say what; come back later and they will ask you "what did you go to do"...you can say "look at you, stalker!"

And can someone elaborate on what kino is? I might have eperinced something of this sort when I was in a group of 4 (two girls and 2 boys incl. me); this girl and the boy go out to talk i alsogo out leaving the other girl in the other room, I have a convo with the girl simultaneously blocking the other guy chatting to her, the convo pauses but I decided to go see the other girl I left behind ad guess what she followed moments later....is this kino?

To the OP. So what mind blowing, interesting, scintillating things do you talk about then that doesn't bore the fucking ass off girls? Do tell.

I was at a house party and me and my friend where in the kitchen talking to a group of people; the convo was just about random stuff (our uni course, sports etc) but me and my friend would always make sure that the convo kept going.

And we did a lot of negging to girls and boys which made people laugh, and when they tried do it back at us me and my friend would get back on to them.

Not saying I was able to get that one girl and make her fall at the knees but we portrayed that we where the life of the party to some extent.

And this enabled me to close kiss one of the girls I wanted...but getting her to come back with me was another dilemma!