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PostPosted: Wed Sep 04, 2013 1:45 pm 
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@bamthebomb

I've tried
"OMG, you look like the girl i used to hate while i had a crush on her.. she was a total bitch!"

and have gotten girls to respond.

I just don't how to carry that from here haha.

Response have mainly been...
OK.......
LOL... LOK

stuff like that.
There are a few types of openers. Gimmicks that trick a girl into responding to you and then you are stuck, or openers that actually make them want to respond to you. Though in reality, the opener is more about 'not screwing up' and your PROFILE is what makes a girl want to respond to you. Use an opener that shows you read their profile. They are the most successful in terms of getting actual dates. Yea, you can try some gimmicky shit, but if the girl isn't into your profile, it will just be a waste of time. Focus on your profile, and then send a message that shows you READ their profile and aren't just copy pasting, and you should be fine.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 5:19 am 
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:30 am 
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Poke her. She pokes you back. Send her a message " how rude of you to poke me, what would your mother say if she knew?"

worked for me


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:25 pm 
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i like to use:
1) OMG, you like the tipe of girl that needs ages to be ready... ;) (credit to BravoPUA) hb:9-10's
2) do you know why you suck :(? (credit to Mystery, and i use it only if i can get away with it) hb: only 10's
3) OMG, you look like the girl i used to hate while i had a crush on her.. she was a total bitch (works about 70%)
4) You don't know me, i don't know you but you look like know a thing or two about fashion... i have a job interview in 24 hours and i need to look perfect so do i get to wear a blue or pink shirt? (if she's nice she will reply. i used it only on 6's,7's and 8's, for 9,10's i like to use the first two)

The first two are golden!
My friend who was a bit of a PUA told me to use the, YOu know why you suck, Opener, even in public. My question is, what do you say next?? She's going to come back with some bitch attitude like, "who the fuck are you!"

Or worse start insulting you. Which has happened a few time in the past. I guess its good I got a response from an HB10 but I never know where to go with it after.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2014 5:53 pm 
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i like to use:
1) OMG, you like the tipe of girl that needs ages to be ready... ;) (credit to BravoPUA) hb:9-10's
2) do you know why you suck :(? (credit to Mystery, and i use it only if i can get away with it) hb: only 10's
3) OMG, you look like the girl i used to hate while i had a crush on her.. she was a total bitch (works about 70%)
4) You don't know me, i don't know you but you look like know a thing or two about fashion... i have a job interview in 24 hours and i need to look perfect so do i get to wear a blue or pink shirt? (if she's nice she will reply. i used it only on 6's,7's and 8's, for 9,10's i like to use the first two)

The first two are golden!
My friend who was a bit of a PUA told me to use the, YOu know why you suck, Opener, even in public. My question is, what do you say next?? She's going to come back with some bitch attitude like, "who the fuck are you!"

Or worse start insulting you. Which has happened a few time in the past. I guess its good I got a response from an HB10 but I never know where to go with it after.

"Do you know why you suck?... Because I've been waiting to talk to you for 20min now but you 'Miss Popular' have been surrounded by all these guys & I couldn't talk to you. That's why you suck. Who are you?(cross arms)... and that makes you special because??"


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2014 6:18 pm 
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I usually go with either:

'Hey, just quickly I need to ask you a question on something
I need a females opinion'
followed with a copy and pasted opener, usually shady friend.
60-70(ish)% response rate.

or

'Hey, I need to ask. Are you shy or something?
It's just I've been online for ages and you haven't said hello yet'
only if they are online at that moment though
this probably has more of a 50-60% reply rate.
Be prepared for bitch shields though, 1 response I had was:

"shy my asre.. I chat to who I want to..if I havnt said hallo its because I dont want to"

my reply: 'Wow I love a fiery woman :D I thought I was being cute and funny but I must just be being cute.'

got a 'lol shutup' in response, but it led into a conversation.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2014 7:07 pm 
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"Hey I like your picture, although it would be better without your face in it"
that's very weak. don't ever use it.


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I use Social Media (Facebook mostly) and Dating Apps (like Tinder) to select the girls I intent to catch.

After that I gather all the information about them using Blackbook CRM (blackbookcrm.com) and use that 'knowledge' to improve my game and to determine the kind of pickup line I must follow with the girl.

Basically I add the girls into Facebook and then put them into Blackbook CRM, that consolidates all the data about them for me. Then I can easily study my targets before engaging. Usually I check all their interests to start a conversation and look their top influencers, the people that mostly interact with her online, to see how many more guys are talking with the girl. After that I check her map and agenda to see what kind of place she actually goes and use it to suggest a place to hangout.

After I started using this process, my success rate improved a LOT... when I actually go meet the girl she's already very interested in me. It's also got much more easier to maintain (or terminate) any contact with the girls.

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