I kiss-closed some chick on the first date( and not only, even got my hands on her, neck-kissing and shit). But on the second date she won't let me escalate. Maybe I'm too dumb and I cannot figure out why. But if someone knows please EXPLAIN. Thanks. Ryan Black.

On the second date, it's possible that you didn't do the things such that she FELT LIKE kissing etc. It's work to get back to that feeling and vibe. However it seems odd that she didn't even let you kiss her hello or whatever. Her ASD might have been kicking in hardcore, or maybe she was just having an off day. Next time playfully call her out on the not kissing before you meet up and basically get her to promise to be into you; if u do that, do it in a non-needy and non-asshole way. If she acts disinterested don't even meet up w/ her; next her. If you don't address it before the next date, and make a move, she will probably reject it.

This is called "Buyers Remorse." On the first date, you got her worked up. She was horny. However, you more than likely were the one that pushed the kiss. At the time, she was feeling turned on, so she was down to kiss back. However, on the next date, she wasn't in that frame of mind yet. Imagine the difference in yourself between when you're really turned on versus thinking about regular day to day stuff. If you push to hard the first night, then when you try to get together the second night, her mind is thinking "Oh geez, we went this far last time, so this time he's going to expect me to go atleast that far, maybe even further." This can lead to her putting up her shields and ASD.

'OceanX's advice is good as well. If you push it on the first day, you're going to have to push even harder on the second to get back to that vibe she was feeling before

My advice at this point, is play it distant. If she's not giving positive responses to you, discipline her for it. As soon as she seems to be okay with the Kino escalation, reward her for it.

Thank you guys

You know, sometimes what I would do is just not kiss her on the second date immediately, that puts away the pressure, try to go for a comfortable zone for both, like you both feel like everything that is going on is natural, there is no pressure of kissing, I'm having a good time and she will too, after you set up that you can immediately push the bottom and turn her on, you have it easy now since you kissed her. This all depends on the first date, on how much time and how you spend it with her

Thanks for the advice guys. She's now my girlfriend