Hi all...

I've been seeing a girl I picked up a few months ago... and all is going great. I'm still out sarging and she knows that we're nothing official. I've been getting great sex from her an fun nights out...

However she's now starting to ask for more committment and something official. I don't want to be in a relationship... I enjoy the game toi much.. However at the same time I don't want to loose her..

Do I just need to cut it off completely ?

I considered getting into a relationship with her.. but I set out to pick her up with the sole objective being to sleep with her. Everything we have was built on that objective so it kinda feels like what we have could never mean enough to start something serious about.

Veiws and opinions ?

Yours,
Yoghurt

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Hey mate. This is something you have to decide for yourself. Weigh the pros and cons of a relationship with her as well as staying single. Also think which is more important,benificial,mutually beneficial, and make your decision after you've considered all those things. As far as the objective you're basing your relationship on. You can't help where you meet a girl. Also I have 2 friends that are pretty much married, and she says straight up when they met it was only supposed to be a one nighter. If you choose a relationship and you both end up being in love how you met won't matter. Just my opinion though. Good luck!

From what you said in your post it's pretty clear you want to stay in the game. With that being the case, this girl has two options; keep things the way they are between you where the 2 of you are having a lot of fun, or break it off. The moment you commit to a relationship she more or less gets to keep tabs on you; you are obviously not allowed to get with other girls; and on and on. My post would have taken an opposite tone if it seemed you wanted to be exclusive w/ this girl....actually I probably wouldn't have posted at all.